Quote Originally Posted by BexP88 View Post
Yes i agree with everyone, just wait until you are ready. I know its probably hard but I never did ask about STI's with my current partner but it turns out my ex had cheated on me and he had give me chlamydia, which untill i recently decided to check, i didnt know i even had for about 1 year. So definately its worth asking honestly. For a man to get tested for chlamydia its so simple just a urine sample, im not sure about other STI's but if he loves you, then he will not make a fuss and get the tests done for your peace of mind.

The first time is usually a little messy, mine was with a boy that was a vrgin also so was quite alot of whats going on here going on, but if hes had previous experience, more than likely he will be understanding and just help you through the first part, when you get going you'll just get into the flow

GL with whatever you choose
oh lord!! most definitly i am going to ask him to get checked, because thats crazy. that was one of my fears that i would just take it in silence if you will, and that is just strange for both of us and i just dont want to deal with that. well thank you. if you dont mind me asking being with a virgin first easier or what becasue we are both in the same boat in the fact that we both havent gone there?