is this normal or healthy?

**Michelle_7773** · 12-03-2009 02:30 AM

OK so the other night my fiance and i were having sex and he felt he had to cum and when he pulled out nothing came out so he thought it was to soon so we kept going and he felt it again and still nothing...and after that we decided to to stop and it went limp fast and he had sever pain in his testicle and in the shaft of the penis itself and there was no sperm nothing..what could be wrong? shuld he see a doctor? s this normal or even healthy for him?

any advice will help,
thank you!
Michelle

**x.st.angel.x** · 12-03-2009 02:35 AM

Hello Michelle

Has this or something similar happened to him before??

**Michelle_7773** · 12-03-2009 02:41 AM

sort of bout six month ago..he described it different though last time he said it felt like he had cum but there was no sperm till a couple hours later but this time he just felt like he had to with was sever pain and no sperm at all.

**x.st.angel.x** · 12-03-2009 02:45 AM

I just did a search and found something interesting. A problem called "Retarded or Delayed ejaculation". This problem is for both not being able to ejaculate and if it is delayed.

Most of the causes are psychological, including performance anxiety, self-consciousness, a belief that sex is somehow dirty or immoral, stress and relationship difficulties. It can be the result of the side-effects of certain antidepressant drugs or of nerve damage. It can also be caused by physical factors such as a hormone imbalance or nerve damage resulting from pelvic injury or surgery or diabetes.

Do you think he may be suffering from any of the above??

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 12-03-2009 02:52 AM

Good points x.st.angel.x I know from reading alot of these threads, anxiety is a major issue, fear of "getting it right" to start with.

But no cum and severe pain, I would definately look into some of those things above with a Doctor...

CW

**Michelle_7773** · 12-03-2009 02:54 AM

its possible, hes been sick for the past few months randomly and really high fever and headaches hit him and its bad there just not consistant or anything...he hasn't had any surgeries or been diagnosed with any hormonal imbalances...is there anything i should do for him or anything i can do? shoul he se a doctor? im truly scared for him. we've been trying to have a baby but we have been anything but successful.

**x.st.angel.x** · 12-03-2009 02:56 AM

Definately get him to see a doctor especially if you say he's been having headaches and fever especially if its been spread over a few months.

**Michelle_7773** · 12-03-2009 03:01 AM

i will make him an appt for the "Retarded or Delayed ejaculation" but he saw a doctor about the headaches and fevers and they keep telling us virtigo and he has the flu the have even trid to tell us he had swine flu..is this going to effect our reproduction? is there anything we can do at home?

**x.st.angel.x** · 12-03-2009 03:07 AM

From what i have read if he has this problem it wont affect reproduction but because we are not sure of what the problem is exactly, it'll be good for you to ask the doctor that. Depending on what the problem is will determine what you can do to help from home, but see what the doctor says first

Good luck!