Thread: Oral Question?

I'm pretty sure my boyfriend isn't crazy about giving oral. He does give it every now and then, mostly when we haven't gotten to see each other for a while and we're "Very Happy" to see each other. When he does, he enjoys himself and is really great at it!
I dont' feel comfortable asking for it, when I'm not sure if he likes doing it.Do not want him to do anything he doesn't want to. He's definately more important to me than recieving oral and I can live without.

So, my question is, is there anything I can do to make it more enjoyable for him, so that he will want to do it more?

The key is talking to him. When you're next on the sofa and your snuggled up and your in the mood say something like 'I love it when you go down on me you're really good' This is encouraging and check his responce/reaction.

Well if I were you id jus put it out there....but its true guys love to hear what they are good ! Well good luck for you if you could live with out but I can't!! How do you do it!

Maybe have some fun with flavored lube?

Tell him you love it because he is so good at it! (of course I hope you return the favor).

He may also enjoy it more if he is already aroused. Give him head for a while (don't finish him), them move so he can give you oral. Tell him you'll finish him when he is done with you

Most men really enjoy giving oral. (just be sure you are reasonably clean).

I love him more than anything else, oral is something I could live without because I couldn't live without him.

He usually recieves oral around 3 times a week (if not more), to complete finish, and also as foreplay. I have no problem with this because I love performing oral on him.

As for the being clean, we both always wash up before any oral activites take place, we just prefer it that way.

Thanks for the advice, keep it coming please

I was in the opposite situation, I loved going down on my former girlfriend, but she was uncomfortable with it. It wasn't until I convinced her of how much I enjoyed it, and how much I enjoyed her reaction to it, that she started letting me with any regularity.

I think the other posters are spot on, talk about it. Or next time he does do it for you, make a point about reacting to it (if you don't already). Chances are if he knows how much he's affecting you he will have no problem doing it again later.

I definately have a reaction , I tend to be a bit loud most of the time. Which wouldn't be a problem if we didn't live in dorms. So, that could be some of the problem, he tends to have to tell me to be quiter, even though it drives him crazy knowing that he's the reason for the loud moans.

I'll be bringing it up hopefully within the next couple days. While we still have some alone time before we head home for Christmas Break. We get to see each other then, but we'll both be working and with both of us living with our parents, it's very hard to get alone time, especially that kind of alone time. We won't fool around if anyone else is home. Sorry, totally off topic.

Put on loud music....

Luckily for me my boyfriend couldn't live without going down on me. He loves it probably more than I do and I REALLY LOVE IT! As others have said, encouragement but also, just talk to him about it. Communication is key. I can't stress that enough.