Thread: masterbating differently

There plenty of time to get in to sex toys later (many women have noever used one at least until there mid twenties or even later). You need to get the basics right. You get orgasm vaginally so cliteral should be easy. Lots of women cannot cum using vaginal stimulation only.

This is the fun bit for you to discover how your body works. Experiment its fun and it is the start of a good sex life when you are older and ready for it.

The clitty stuff above it all good advice.

invest in a clitoral stimulator I went to my local undies/sex shop yesterday with my boyfriend while we were shopping and he went bright red when the lady at the counter asked 'For an extra £5 would you be interested in our gold bullet vibrator?'

He couldn't believe how casual we were about it bless him!


But yeah, my clit vibe is like a finger cover with a vibrating bullet in the tip, its covered in bobbles... and its got a control attached so you can change the vibrations


heres a pic

God bless the Essex massive I used to live in Chelmsford back in the day.

This girl is 15 or 16, IMHO sex toys are for slightly older people. I know how to get a very good vibrator atternative with no "are you 18" or embarisment but I am not going to put it on a public forum. Private mail me we can discuss whether this is right for you and I can advise. Currently I believe the cliteral stuff will get you through.

enjoy Fb

Haha the Essex massive, how did you find out?


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On reflection....I just realised it says 'Essex in England' under my pic....yeah man! Basildon :P

For me I learned to take my time and truly enjoy masturbating. First I lay down and try to relax my whole body. Play soft music. Light scented candles. I do not use a vibrator. I do have lubricant like Astroglide available but first I close my eyes, then begin to softly stroke my nipples and the inside of my thighs.Again, take mytime. Then I lightly brush up and down labia while alternating between nipples and inside of thighs. Then I begin to gently insert my finger more deeply inside as I move my finger up and down. Slowly. Then I begin to touch my clitoris more firmly while inserting. If I need to I may use lubricant. I also insert another finger into my vagina to feel more "full" while using other finger to more forcefully rub my clitoris. I also enjoy holding hood while rubbing clitoris. I increase speed and pressure. I almost always reach intense orgasm.

Try rubbing your clit.You can rub directly across it,or around the area.Many women have more intense orgasms through clitoral stimulation.That's not the case with me,personally,But clitoral orgasms are EXTREMELY pleasureable.

Like Tex said,you can sandwich the clitoral hood,and slowly rub up and down.Another thing you could try it maybe inserting a finger or two into your vagina.Unlike the bottle,your fingers are soft,smooth,and if your nails are trimmed,its very unlikely that you'll cause any damage.And you don't even have to go deep with your fingers.You may experience more pleasure by wiggling your fingers from side to side,or moving them in a circular motion.With some dedicated practice,you'll figure out exactly what you like,and you'l be able to get yourself off everytime.

Try both at once.While you finger youself,Rub your clit slowly,and gradually speed up.

If you do though,make sure you are well lubricated.I Like to get myself turned on before I insert anything into me.Even rubbing your clit for a while,will get you nice and lubricated.Try rubbing you nipples,and slowly rubbing your legs,and stomach and in between your thighs.

Ever tried a piece of ice? Rub it across your nipples,and down your body and in between your legs.after the ice cube has melted,you should be nice and turned on.

It has taken me months,and months to figure masturbating out.but Once I joined here,it's like I became an expert with all the advice I've been given. You could also try a search on masturbating.There have been many threads about masturbating.Even I have started a few. Good Luck,and Happy Orgasms!