Thread: masterbating differently

A vibrator should not cause any long term damage. It may cause some slight desensitization immediately after using it but you should recover from even a strong vibrator session within hours. Maybe if you wore a vibrator 24/7 you could numb things for longer but unlikely to last more than a day. I have far stronger masturbation toys using electricity (not the shock or pain type stuff people think of but low levels of slowly increasing and decreasing of certain wave forms) targeting stimulation of nerves specifically. Look up an et312b unit if you want an example of electricity for pleasure instead of pain. It's the latest and greatest technology in masturbation on yourself or a partner but costs a bit. Being individuals not everyone enjoys it. The original idea was off using a TENS unit if you are familiar with those. It can stimulate muscle contractions and nerves so that it feels like there is pressure and even mimics sex without the friction on the skin that could give pain so it's a popular option for people who are sensitive or have a medical problem. At worst I over stimulate the nerves too much and go numb for about an hour or I do it for too long and end up with tingling bits for a day. Despite that half the time I'm even more sensitive and horny by the time my husband comes home from work a few hours later. Really nerves recover quickly. A simple vibrator is not going to do any long term damage. The only long term damage I can see is applying too much pressure and cutting off blood flow for an extended period of time. They are great for experimenting and it's entirely possible to learn to orgasm without one after only using one. My first good orgasms were with a vibrator and the ones I've had for the past week were without.

However getting a vibrator before you turn 18 is difficult and trying to get anything done with fingers alone was time consuming and boring. I usually lost interest before I got anywhere. I made due getting some pleasure using things like the toothbrush mentioned. An electric toothbrush can be used as a vibrator on the clit (not inserted). Long handled spoon (metal one can be bent to hit the g spot). The hard plastic cases that some syringes come in are the right shape and if you have a feedstore to get a 20cc syringe it's about the right size. Pop it out of the case and throw it away if you want keeping the tapered end case to use. You don't have to be 18 for that. You just have to hide it from your parents if you think they'd be upset about you masturbating. I didn't have that issue since we had a horse stable on the property and needed them frequently anyway. It worked perfectly for me until I could get my first vibrator. I like something inserted in my vagina even if I'm trying to have a clitoral orgasm. I feel unsatisfied if I only cause a clitoral orgasm without inserting anything.