Thread: on top??

I used to love when my girlfriend would go on top, and let her do basically whatever the she wanted. It also gives great access to the girls breast and nipples (major turn on for my ex) so it worked well all the way around.

Her only complaint was that she would get tired after awhile. I'd say start simple, staying close to him and grinding (as long as it's not painful to you) and if he enjoys is (I bet money he will) get a little more adventerous.

I used to hate being on top...then I really got into it one day, thinking about how he was there to please me, and I found the groove, so to speak. I find trying to do an up and down motion is sometimes awkward...and very tiring for your legs. Try a rocking or grinding motion. If you spread your legs wider while doing this, you get better stimulation. And let him worship you...kiss your mouth, your breasts, grab your bum and hips, just let loose and remember that you're a sex goddess!

My best advice on this is do what feels good to you. Manuever around and try different movements til it feels good. If it feels good to you, it will feel good to him. If you're not afraid to ask him, then ask if he'll help you out a little and show you what he likes, which he'll probably like whatever you do honestly. Practice makes perfect!

Put some pillows under his shoulders to make it easier for him to reach your nipples with his mouth - if you like that sort of thing...

If I remeber correctly (and it has been 8+ years since this was last tried) I don't think you (the woman) can do anything wrong in that position. It is a Win-Win position. You can control the rubbing and grinding and he gets to watch and try and hold out. If I remember correctly for my wife she got what she wanted and I loved not being able to control motions or speed as I orgasmed.

You might want to stop if he looks like he is not breathing, that was how good I rememeber it being (from the male perspective). I'd suggest having him try pressing in on your butt, I remeber that causing mutual areas to rub better with one another.

I also rememeber once being woken up and being ridden. It is one of the fondest memories I have.

Originally Posted by Mitchel1870

I also rememeber once being woken up and being ridden. It is one of the fondest memories I have.

Ah, yes... I remember just such an occasion - what a joy it was!