What do you do while on your period??

**Mes T** · 12-24-2009 12:46 AM

Alright so my periods last a while these days thanks to my IUD, and they're pretty heavy at that, so actual intercourse at that time might not be the best idea...

What other intimate things can I do during this time? I'm open to any suggestions... including, I don't know, walking around naked... Although I don't see how that could help hold us over until we can have sex...

I give my partner oral every now and then during this time, but how can I make it even more exciting, more fulfilling, without intercourse??

**Missetm** · 12-24-2009 01:41 AM

I don't know, besides oral, there's not really much else you can do during this time, unless you give him a hand job, but it seems oral would be better than that... I'd be interested to find out some more suggestions also.

**Texinator** · 12-24-2009 06:42 AM

Sex in the shower! Makes cleaning up easier.

**kygirl** · 12-24-2009 07:44 AM

Originally Posted by Mes_T

Alright so my periods last a while these days thanks to my IUD, and they're pretty heavy at that, so actual intercourse at that time might not be the best idea...

What other intimate things can I do during this time? I'm open to any suggestions... including, I don't know, walking around naked... Although I don't see how that could help hold us over until we can have sex...

I give my partner oral every now and then during this time, but how can I make it even more exciting, more fulfilling, without intercourse??

I am with Tex... OR you can always try the Instead cups... I used to be on another message board a few years ago when I found out about them...They aren't technically for having sex, but I haven't found information saying it's unsafe. They're a lifesaver if you want to have sex AND avoid the mess. And I've never had any complaints about them

If you want more details, feel free to PM me

**OhThereYouAre** · 12-24-2009 08:09 AM

He can't deal with the mess...you can't....or both?

It's never been a problem for us.

**WildChild** · 12-24-2009 08:14 AM

Buy a nice red towel. Put it under you. Shower after.

**kygirl** · 12-24-2009 10:02 AM

Originally Posted by WildChild

Buy a nice red towel. Put it under you. Shower after.

I used to have a black towel that I used for this very reason. lol

**Texinator** · 12-24-2009 10:16 AM

If he performs oral on you, have him get a set of fake vampire teeth to put in afterward for a good laugh.

**newhere808** · 12-24-2009 12:45 PM

Originally Posted by Tex

If he performs oral on you, have him get a set of fake vampire teeth to put in afterward for a good laugh.

There's an image

My ex was really self conscious about this same thing when we first started having sex, but after awhile, and a lot of convincing she got comfortable with sex during her period. I guess it just depends on the comfort level of both involved.

**dreamoutloud** · 12-24-2009 03:02 PM

My boyfriend would happily go down on me while I had a tampon in. It took a little longer cause he couldn't finger me, but it got the job done and didn't give the whole vampire effect. ;-) As for sex, I second the red towel.