Thread: Penis size... what is normal?

i sounds like its a good length... but how thick is mr happy? i had a black room mate in college and he was packing about 8 inches long...but if you painted it silver it would have looked like a bicycle kickstand. he would pull it out and show it off thinking he had some kinda award winning schlong. either way it doesnt matter... she may have just laughed because she was goofy, and trust me it doesnt matter. girls are much more worried about whether or not you have a flat stomach most of the time

There is no such thing as normal. I am a 26 year old guy and I realised that you need to be strong to resist all the insecurities people project on you whether you are a man or woman. Big deal, someone says your breasts or manhood is small or big. That is there problem, let them deal with it. Everyone is different (thankfully) and we should appreciate ourselves and others. If someone can't deal with it then it is their issue. Btw Millania, I am sure most women are happy for you to speak on their behalf (sarcastic)

Originally Posted by Bajanman

Hi ladies,
let me just say I am new here, and I have a question alot of guys I know often brag about penis size but I wanna know from women, my penis is about 4.5 inches soft and approximately 7 inches when hard, thing is I am black so it is alot of pressure to live up to the hype. Once I started to fool around with a girl I was talkin to, she pulled down my pants when I was soft and started to laugh since then I was skeptical about gettin into sexual encounters. I just wanna know if that is small to you all and what is normal to you cause this thing is really bothering me.

I can tell you, it works exactly the opposite was sometimes though.

For the 1st twenty or so years of my life I assumed my penis was much the same as everyone else's because I really only saw them soft and for whatever reason wasn't pay "that" much attention. I had a few partners in that time that really didn't say much either. Then got married in my mid 20's and the status quo ensued.

Now I'm not sure if I was a late bloomer but after my marriage was over in 07 I got to sew my oats a little and was told on more than a couple of occasions "where the **** do you think you're going to put that" and not by young "girls" but by various women from 25-45.............

I had to work doubly hard, a) to make sure they were satisfied if we didn't go down the penetration route and b) to keep them well relaxed if we did.

Of course there were some that couldn't get enough as well but I was completely shut down a few times and if you discuss it with anyone they assume you're either bragging or lying.

I heard a woman say: "Penis size only matters if it's too small, or too big"

I think she speaks the truth.

Presumably this (inexperienced) girl would have laughed as much had you took her top of and laughed at her small boobs or her big bum below? Maybe she was nervous?
As Hopeless Dork says, any girl who laughs at a guy's penis should not be looking at one in the first place. None of us have perfect bodies, but we are all perfectly made!

And.. I remember meeting and girl and going to bed and the first thing she wanted to do was measure my penis. She kept a chart, with her friend, of men's penis sizes. I didn't mind that but later on in the evening she put me off completely by running a bath and trying to cover me in slimy oil. Ugh ! She also didn't want to use a condom and we hardly knew each other. I lost total respect for her and never had sex with her.

Penis size is just like anything else in life, doesn't make 1 bit of difference if you're with the right person or surrounded by the right people. I'm just slightly over 9 inches but I'm always struggling with many other issues in my life (fiance does NOTHING except regular sex, no hand job, no bj, no anal, no, NOTHING, never has with anybody else) so imagine what that'd do to your psyche having to deal with what seems to be a future wife that doesn't touch you! But, we love each over very much and hopefully we can work around our issues.

I know i have a huge member but would trade a few inches for my other issues to dissapear and where would that leave me? Right back here asking if penis size matters! Don't stress the things you can't change.

Originally Posted by BigDaddy

I can tell you, it works exactly the opposite was sometimes though.

For the 1st twenty or so years of my life I assumed my penis was much the same as everyone else's because I really only saw them soft and for whatever reason wasn't pay "that" much attention. I had a few partners in that time that really didn't say much either. Then got married in my mid 20's and the status quo ensued.

Now I'm not sure if I was a late bloomer but after my marriage was over in 07 I got to sew my oats a little and was told on more than a couple of occasions "where the **** do you think you're going to put that" and not by young "girls" but by various women from 25-45.............

I had to work doubly hard, a) to make sure they were satisfied if we didn't go down the penetration route and b) to keep them well relaxed if we did.

Of course there were some that couldn't get enough as well but I was completely shut down a few times and if you discuss it with anyone they assume you're either bragging or lying.

I had to smile at this statement. One of my friends went through this recently and she asked him that exact same question where are you going to put that? And hey it fitted and it was amazing for her.

My ex was big (well not huge, but still big) over 9 inches and it was good, but I was then too sore for a round 2 so I would just stop and he would want to carry on. Whereas my current boyfriend must be between 5 and 5.5 inches and actually manages to hit my g-spot 70% of the time because he is shorter instead of trying to penetrate my uterus like my ex. I slept with a guy only once because there was no way I was going to do that again. He was too big must have been close to 11 inches and it actually hurt a lot when he put it in and he didn't quite fit either. Every women is different and believe me I can count on both hands how many women I know who prefer bigger.