Thread: How old...

well, i'm 18, and have been with my boyfriend for about a year, and i'm still a virgin.
we've done some other things, but after a million talks and decisions, we're waiting until marriage.
we're both really arousable (not a word) so sometimes it's pretty hard not to just do it, but we love each other, and don't want to go against our values, because we would feel guilty.
i've had plenty of chances, now and in the past, and he tried sex once but didn't orgasm, because after a couple of seconds he panicked and stopped, so he still thinks of himself as a virgin.
it's going to be really hard to wait, but i know it'll be worth it.

After I had just turned 18 to my highschool boyfriend after 6 months (He was 17)... He had trouble keeping it up the first time, but afterwards was "obsessed" with sex- mostly the kind that degraded and disrespected me. We broke up after eight months. I wish I had waited a little longer until I met my current boyfriend...

I'm 21 (female) and I'm a virgin still.

20. With the love of my life and now we're engaged.

I think I was 19. And thankfully a good experience

i would have to say mine wasnt a very good experience at all went horribley wrong if i could of turned the clock back i soooooooooo would of done !!! i was nearly 16 !

Originally Posted by erinnay

well, i'm 18, and have been with my boyfriend for about a year, and i'm still a virgin.
we've done some other things, but after a million talks and decisions, we're waiting until marriage.
we're both really arousable (not a word) so sometimes it's pretty hard not to just do it, but we love each other, and don't want to go against our values, because we would feel guilty.
i've had plenty of chances, now and in the past, and he tried sex once but didn't orgasm, because after a couple of seconds he panicked and stopped, so he still thinks of himself as a virgin.
it's going to be really hard to wait, but i know it'll be worth it.

awe, this is such a sweet post! You'll be thrilled you waited on your honeymoon. ^_^

And I was 25.

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I was 16 a couple months shy of 17. I dated the guy for 3 and a half years though so I hope that counteracts my earlyness. And it did seem right when it happened. We sort of worked our way up to it for a few months. We finally split when I was 19. I guess you could say he was my highschool sweetheart. But everyone moves at a different pace and the right time for one may be the wrong time for another. Just ask yourself "am I going to regret this?"

It was about the 6th or 7 time I had sex before I had an orgasm. But I think that's bc we really worked our way up to it. Grinding and such lol. I did orgasm a couple of times doing that.