Thread: Your first time, what was it like??

I'll let you know when it happens.

Originally Posted by LanaBear

Completely uneventful. I was 14 dating a Marine, 18 or 19 (I know I know, I don't know what I was thinking at that age). Anyways, we were up in my room, my mom and stepdad downstairs. Started making out and ended up doing it, it hurt, I was thinking, what the H&LL! We were done, went on a walk, I never spoke to him again. My choice. He was leaving the next day to go back to base, we were still together at that time, but when he left I just really didn't want to talk or see him again. He called and called and called, I was always, well, washing my hair... He wrote letters, I never responded. I don't know why I felt that way, but I did.

Guilt proliferated by regret maybe?

it was ok..not very painful, just a twinge. after he became my ex I was celibate for about 10 years...the first time with my new husband was WONDERFUL as is every time we make love

omg my first was horrible, he had no idea what he was doing and it hurt so bad, it maybe lasted like five minutes, so sad i know... but i dont count that as my first i count my first as the first time i had a great orgasm. and omg was that amazing it lasted all night, and when i woke up the next day i woke up to him making breakfast playing good morning beautiful....soo romantic, to bad he couldnt stay that way...

It was in college, with my then fiancee...

We were in his dorm room, and day after day had been edging closer and closer, but he knew I wanted to wait until marriage and he knew I'd had shall we say negativity inducing sexual interactions in my earlier times. He'd been with one other girl prior, back in high school.

He was very good at arousing me with his mouth and my breasts, and I longed to feel more. I knew there was supposed to be pain, and I was worried about that, but since we weren't going to take it that far..it was more of a future concern...

I began to feel very aroused, and began playing manually with him, wanting him to feel as good as he was making me feel. Eventually he was on top of me, and I could feel his excitement as he used his skills to brush against me with his penis...oh it was intense that day...he looked into my eyes, and played with just barely putting the tip in.

We were so hot! Finally I heard myself begging him to please, please..and arching my back to try to feel more of him, reaching for him...he looked at me, concerned, and asked "Do you really want to do this? Are you sure?" A million thoughts flashed though my mind-virginity, engaged, desire, future guilt?, desire...and I said "yes, I love you, and I want this for us" and with that, he slowly (it must have been agonizing for him, come to think) thrust a little more, and a little more, and then..some uncomfortable feelings, he stopped, grabbed something useful as lubricant, and then, he slid all the way in, and I felt the exquisite fullness, the erotic release of endorphins, and the thrill of being desired.

Afterwards, we lay panting on the bed...smiling like Cheshire cats...exhausted..at least until I felt recovered enough to try again

Hated my first time. It was with someone who ended things with me a few days later. It was in his room. He had a pet ferret who he let out to poo all over his carpet. The stench in his room was beyond nasty. Romantic, right? lol. Not to mention he had a woman's nighty in his closet!! I think it was meant for his ex, but who knows!!?
We were both 19.
He had a small one, but it hurt a lot. It wasn't pleasurable to me at all. I remember just wanting it to be over.

I was reading some of the other posts on this one, and I must say I am so dismayed some of the 'first times' were not really the greatest...I really hope your experiences since then have more than made up for the beginning!!!

Originally Posted by Explorer44

I was reading some of the other posts on this one, and I must say I am so dismayed some of the 'first times' were not really the greatest...I really hope your experiences since then have more than made up for the beginning!!!

I don't think that's too uncommon, a lot of people go into sex with some kind of expectation or another from friends or family or tv or what have you. Hard to know what to expect, so it's no surprise a lot of peoples 1sts are anti-climactic. My second time around was mind blowing, since the awkward "now what" was outta the way