Thread: Lingerie...yes or no What type do you prefer

I have a weekend coming up (lets cross our fingers that everything goes smoothly) and it occured to me that maybe I should wear some underoo surprises. While contemplating this I thought maybe some thigh highs and a garter belt etc but what do men really like? What is your preferance as a woman and do you notice differenct reactions? I'm looking for that WOW affect. Now I have a tummy so lets think about anything that will direct the eyes AWAY from that..lol

Confidence being a huge turn on for me, I usually like whatever makes her feel sexiest. So a woman, in my opinion at least, should wear lingerie first and foremost for herself and go with an outfit she thinks she looks best in.

( you are getting mostly responses from men her, me included). There are so many options, and it depends on what he likes. Naughty lacy stuff doesn't really do it for me - but does for some men. The slightly dominant bad-girl leather look is nice (to me). Sometimes just a long T-shirt and nothing else that "unintentionally" looks sexy is nice. It all depends.

Yeah, I think it really depends on the man. My husband liked when he came home from work and I had on garters, heels....the whole bit. But then he also likes it when I'm wearing one of his t-shirts and nothing else. Oh wait...he gets turned on by my little white ankle socks! lol No joke! So it just depends on what your guy likes. I've learned us women worry too much about our little flaws. Nine times out of ten, they are looking at the whole package....not just focusing on a little gut or a zit or something...lol

I personally like to wear my silky teddys to bed. I don't know why, but they make me feel pretty. :-) Whatever you decide, have a GREAT time!

My husband loves black or red (of course every man has different preferences)
I have a tummy as well so I like to wear something that covers it
I usually wear knee high black or red stockings with a garder belt, then I usually put on maybe a crothless panty for easy access, you could wear a corset top or another type of sexy cami style top to cover belly etc, then heels of course
I also like the bras with the slits(easy access)

I have been very tempted to buy fishnets, for some reason I find them to be SO sexy, I am sure my man will like? lets hope, I like the wide style fishnet instead of the smaller holes
Anyway Fredericks of Hollywood is an awesome place for you to shop if you are looking for something a bit naughtier than a soft sensual look
its got a bit more edge to it than Victoria Secret, u should check out their site, I absolutley love almost everything at Fredericks of Hollywood
Good luck -have fun shopping!

Originally Posted by Ahryin

Now I have a tummy so lets think about anything that will direct the eyes AWAY from that..lol

Lace bra & panties or sheer babydolls are probably not what you want. Try a bustier, corset (shop for coverage, not constriction in your case), or one of the one-piece teddies. Corsets and teddies can be had with 'hold-ups' for stockings. Add stockings and desired footwear.

Knee-high boots look good with black or leather teddies, not so much with other lingerie. Maybe some nice "do me pumps" or strappy heels.

Hi A

Tex is right what you feel sexy and confident will make you sexy

I seem to recall from you photos you have a darker completion so I think Black is the colour for you. Personaly I think Black is the colour anyway sexy not slutty and it is helps hide a little excess.

Tan or Black Stockings, with seams (nice little burlesk /1950s touch)
Don't were hold ups unless you have legs like a stick insect

Knicker are very subjective area some guys like thong some like french. I prefer any type of knickers which have a mess panel in the front. It's a suggestion of what's to come if you follow me

If you want go crotchless you can get a pair knickers with a little skirt with suspenders on. This can be very naughty and conseal well. My experiance is don't go thong & crotchless to start with as access can rub.

Basque is a nice touch, nothing too restrictive. Personally I'd go for some thing a little see through in places

I would go with heels. This will set your figure off nicely. Boots look great but consider the practicalities. They are hard to take off and you will get hot if you keep them on. Heels can be kicked off when the time is right

Hope this helps, have fun

PS I will post a few piccys (as per your private messge) on my profile when I return from Estonia at the end of next week

Fb

Future you are the first person to say I have a darker complexion...lol THANKS! I have been called Kasper all my life! LOL

For the most part I go with lace boy shorts V cut. I have a very nice rear area if I do say so myself I love thigh highs and garter belts I also have a lot of corsets and "f me pumps" etc. I wasn't just asking for myself but for the general thoughts about lingerie. I love pink, black and red when it comes to undergarmets goes very nicely with my complexion. I just wanted to try something new. I was thinking about a black lace body stocking. hmmmm possibly

My ex used to get some really nice stuff from Victorias Secret, I was particularily a fan of the teddy's she would buy.

My bf really loves the boy shorts, but the new cheekies at Victoria'a Secret I recently got he really loves, but he's a butt man too. He has a garter belt, thigh high stockings and high heeled leather boots fetish going on right now too. Ohhhh! And the schoolgirl outfit I've never known any guy to not love. And I just found a short plaid mini skirt, and a tight polo. Put that with some thigh highs and heels, and put your hair in pigtails. He freaks. Thats what I'm wearing for his pole dance pretty soon.