Thread: Sex Frustration

I chanced to visit this site when I googled "Sex frustration" .I have also read that some women want to have more and more sex which is just the opposite with my girl friend.The first week she moved with me to a new room I could say that both enjoyed a very healthy sex, around 5-6 times a day. Now we are 2 years together and unfortunately everything has changed. She would let me in only 1-2 time in a week, but my stamina demands more and I used to have sleepless because of this.
I would like some advice "how to increase sex desire in women". I love her so much and I don't want to leave her, but she's OK if I have another sex partner provided I do not let her know.
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Is she on the pill? the pill is known to decrease a womens sex drive.

I find it odd that she is letting you sleep with other women, have you spoken to her about her reasons for this?

Maybe try plan a romantic night, some flowers, candles, dimmed lights. Suprise her! see if it makes a difference

5 to 6 times a day would be a bit much to keep up with over 2 years and on to infinity... i mean... unless you guys didn't work or go to school or have friends, hobbies, need to eat or sleep... 5 to 6 times per day would really toooo much.

Add an extra day to your sex routine and you guys are hitting on the average couples sex life... 3 to 4 times per week. Of course whatever you are BOTH okay with is normal and healthy but you should set your goals to a more realistic 5 times a week tops, more than that great, less than that.. no biggie.

Its a terrible sign of your future as a couple if she is saying its okay for you to sleep with someone else. The fact she is saying she doesn't want to know about it means the thought of you doing it HURTS her. If you love her why on earth would you want to cause her heartache?

I could see you contimplating leaving because incompatiblity sexually if she just didn't want it at all, but a couple times a week from the one you love is nothing to go jumping off cliffs over. Not belittling your needs here... but is it possible for you to masturbate some of that excess stamina off?

Sometimes she said that I'm too much.But I know that she loves me a lot. I used to tell her that she should be more sexy like before, then she try to be fair for 1-2 days then the same routine follows. She complains that her pains if we do too much

Twice she took emergency conception pill

The previous message I mean to say Contraceptive pills not concept pills.

Does she enjoy you going down on her?

Yeah I guess but most of the time she wants to make it quick

Do you know why?? have you tried setting up a romantic environment? Make her feel very relaxed and comfortable and take things very slowly?

Maybe her whole day's work exhausted her, but if she do really enjoy then I can see it in her face.I used to start with a few mins of foreplay