Thread: im wondering....

If he has nothing to hide, then why should he not invite you (or you invite yourself) to this 'meeting' with this other woman? It's obvious that he had (has)s feelings for her or he would not have paid for her education and that's ok. What is not ok is him continuing to show these affections when you are the new love of his life. What is the harm in this other woman seeing you as the new love of his life so she will know he's taken?

If he is having sexual relations with other women for sex only, how does this make you feel? It's bugging the heck out of you or you wouldn't be here asking for help. If your feelings are important to him (and they are if he really loves you), he should be willing to make 'adjustments' to his life to calm your fears and make you comfortable with your relationship. I don't know him, but my gut instinct is telling me he is more interested in satisfying his wonderlust than making you feel loved. 'Have your cake and eat it too' somehow keeps playing in my mind.

I think he loves you but I don't think he's in love with you. If he was crazy about you, he wouldn't still be out playing the field. He would be finding ways to make you feel important and loved. Both these fundamental elements to a lasting relationship seem to be missing. I don't believe he wants you thinking about that either.

Hon, he just admitted that he's a cheater. If he truly loves you, you'd be the only woman he goes to for sex.