Thread: my size, what do you think?

My thought process would go "I hope he knows how to use that. I don't want to have to do all the work tonight."

It's easier when there is more to work with but having had a guy larger than you I can say bigger is not always better. I didn't have any problems getting it to fit since I've used toys plenty. He's actually the first guy I had sex with and I'm not very large at all but it was not that uncomfortable. However he absolutely sucked at it. If I was in control everything went fine. If he was then I'd have an awful sore cervix leading to uterine cramps and my insides would just feel bruised. My body finally started making huge amounts of lubrication to help counter it so I wouldn't feel much. Then it just got boring. After 2years I think he was worse at sex than when we started. I tried to give him pointers and explain things to him but it got nowhere. In the end I actually refused to have sex with him just from his lack of skill and consideration for me. I never had an orgasm with him and my vibrator was better. I got a waterproof one so I could go use it in the bath without him knowing.

My husband is average size and could still hurt me sometimes. He's a work in progress because he'd never had sex without condoms so his idea of sex was build as much friction as possible by moving quickly. Just being able to not use condoms made a big difference and I've had orgasms with him. If he does something that is uncomfortable he tries very hard not to repeat it the next time.

Willingness to learn goes a lot farther than penis size. Bigger might make it easier to hit the right spots and do certain positions, I would be slightly disappointed if my husband were smaller, but you still have to work just as hard to figure it all out.