'Do you know how I know you're gay?' - 40 Year Old VirginOriginally Posted by StillLearnin
They would probably also say that us enlightened men are gay because we post on a woman's forum.
And men that use smiley faces are gay.
I just got that BluRay from NetFlix. Going to watch it this weekend.
Stina, nice topic
Enough has been said on what defines gay/straight/bi...it is WHO you do things with not WHAT you do.
My wife and I are yet to do this. She has used our toys and her fingers on (should read 'in') me for a while now. I have been fantasizing about pegging for quite a while and have recently told her. The conversation went like this...
Spooning in bed, her behind me, snuggling after love making.
Me: "I read that you can tell if a relationship will last by whether you fit together spooning"
Her: "Well we fit just perfectly"
Me: "Would fit better if you had an attachment"
Her: "Really? You'd like that would you?"
Me: " yeah!!!!"
Her: "Well we best go shopping then"
Me: "I already have one picked out, online"
Her: "Mmm, okay then. One of your fantasies?"
Me: "Yes honey, one of many"
sleep....
I have a copy of "Bend of Boyfriend" which is an educational vid on the subject which we will be watching together this weekend, as well as some of the "Strap Attack" series which are just full on XXX.
Thanks for the thread
Stina, nice topic
Enough has been said on what defines gay/straight/bi...it is WHO you do things with not WHAT you do.
My wife and I are yet to do this. She has used our toys and her fingers on (should read 'in') me for a while now. I have been fantasizing about pegging for quite a while and have recently told her. The conversation went like this...
Spooning in bed, her behind me, snuggling after love making.
Me: "I read that you can tell if a relationship will last by whether you fit together spooning"
Her: "Well we fit just perfectly"
Me: "Would fit better if you had an attachment"
Her: "Really? You'd like that would you?"
Me: " yeah!!!!"
Her: "Well we best go shopping then"
Me: "I already have one picked out, online"
Her: "Mmm, okay then. One of your fantasies?"
Me: "Yes honey, one of many"
sleep....
I have a copy of "Bend of Boyfriend" which is an educational vid on the subject which we will be watching together this weekend, as well as some of the "Strap Attack" series which are just full on XXX.
Thanks for the thread
WOW!!What a lovely couple! Looks like you got the whole communication thing down perfectly.
I read something (anyone surprised?) that a larger percentage of straight men may be into anal sex than gay. Apparently in the gay community oral or hands are more common. I don't remember what the source was on that though.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
WildChildPedia?
I agree w/ the women here.
I will say this:
Having something up your butt when you cum makes it two to three times as intense, and intensity of orgasm = pleasure, am I wrong?
That being said, my girlfriend isn't really into giving or receiving anal (the most I can get away with is giving her anilingus and using a finger every now and then), so when I get the urge for such a thing (maybe once a month?) I tend to take care of it on my own. I actually think I prefer it that way.
Anyway, that's my two cents. Being a guy and enjoying some some form of anal play (not necessarily pegging) either by yourself or with your girlfriend/wife does NOT make you gay. Thinking that way will cause you to miss out on a lot of potential pleasure.
Last edited by NK543; 01-21-2010 at 01:52 AM.
You'd be surprised how many guys like some 'butt action' but most wouldn't dare admit it (for the very reason that ignorant people would put labels on it). If he enjoys it and you enjoy indulging him - go for it with gusto. Who needs to know except you too (and all of us lol)
I know lots of women who pleasure their guys butts in many, varied ways and I think their relationships are all the stronger b/c there are no prejudices or secrets - just a lot of fun!
soon...
btw- I love knowing that I can always find very positive unbiased responses from a great core of daily posters and from occasional posters alike on this forum (thanks everyone!).
Like others have well stated, sexually speaking, whatever happens between a man and a woman can only be hetrosexual.
It's great to hear that other couples are open to and actively experiencing pegging. My wonderful gf and I started experimenting with anal play about 4 months into our relationship. After she used a finger on me we talked about it and I admitted that it was nice. She was noticably aroused by the mere mention of it and told me that she had a nearly 20 year old fantasy of being on the other side of things. I thought about it briefly and thought, 'why not indulge her fantasy?'; after all it might be fun for me too and whats the harm? By my being open to receiving, she really openned up to her receiving anal sex. Since then she has grown to love it, so much so that she has a huge orgasm very quickly from receiving anal and almost prefers the sensation over vaginal sex. I have bought a small dildo to 'pratice' with which she enjoys playing with (on me). Again, she thinks that my willness to indulge her fantasy is what made this possible. She never allowed her ex-husband, who is homophobic, to go 'there' with her because of his double standards.
I have read up on pegging and how it's perceived. The columnist, Dan Savage (usually very good advise) has some great advise on this: (paraphrasing), 'if you want to give anal sex then you should be open to receiving it as well'.
btw- my gf told me a few days ago that our new toy is ordered and on the way. i am hoping that it's at least half the turn on for me as it will be for her.
It seems like a nice way of keeping a sex couples sex life spicy.
cheers!
my SO enjoyed it and never had a problem with it. we havent done it in years, but theres a lot we havent done in years...
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