Thread: Pegging! Need your opinion.

Letting a woman "peg" you and enjoying it does NOT make a man gay. It makes them more open sexually and therefore more fun for you, but not gay. There is a HUGE difference between an open-minded man and a gay man. And that difference is what sex they are attracted to. Case closed! There are also men that think that letting anyone take control during sex makes them less of a man too. Well, those guys have serious issues and need therapy. I have no problem letting a woman take control in bed, and although I am not going to just jump on in and see if my girlfriend wants to "peg" me, I wouldn't refuse the possibility if it's what she wants. I know what pleasure anal play can bring to the table. For me, it would be her intentions. I know there are people that use it as a way to "put you in your place" or humiliate you, an act of subjugation and degradation, or just for thrills, variety, and extra spice. Just because I am open to the possibility doesn't mean I want a man to do it. I am 100% straight, but I don't keep my mind closed to all variations of pleasure possible between me and my woman.

my gf received her 'new package' today. we are both excited to give it a try tonight. we just have to be patient and wait for the kiddos to go to bed first.

cheers!

Thanks everyone, for all of your articulate and open-minded posts.

Now, I get to brag to my boyfriend that my forum is far more sexually open than his!

As a guy, I have a few points.

1) If I asked a woman I was with if she like the idea of anal sex and she said anything to the effect of "only if I can do yours" or "how would you like it?", I dropped it.

2) A man can cut down trees without being a logger, but that doesnt mean he wont want to become one. I know liking anal penetration alone doesnt make you gay, it takes attraction to other men, but cutting down and chopping up trees makes you more of a logger than someone who has never touched a saw or an axe.

3) Being penetrated will always be seen as a vunerable and sumissive act for a man. Some women will always see facials as degrading or disrespectful. Some couples will never be swingers because they cant handle the jealousy. It doesnt make a man homophobic or insecure to not want to be sodomized.

Originally Posted by SoCoKen

As a guy, I have a few points.

1) If I asked a woman I was with if she like the idea of anal sex and she said anything to the effect of "only if I can do yours" or "how would you like it?", I dropped it.

2) A man can cut down trees without being a logger, but that doesnt mean he wont want to become one. I know liking anal penetration alone doesnt make you gay, it takes attraction to other men, but cutting down and chopping up trees makes you more of a logger than someone who has never touched a saw or an axe.

3) Being penetrated will always be seen as a vunerable and sumissive act for a man. Some women will always see facials as degrading or disrespectful. Some couples will never be swingers because they cant handle the jealousy. It doesnt make a man homophobic or insecure to not want to be sodomized.

I think this may have been touched upon already, but gay men do give and receive oral sex too.

Does that mean that a straight man who receives oral sex from his female partner is somehow closer to being gay than a straight man who doesn't receive oral sex?