Thread: Cant get it in :-/

He will be fine, trust me.

Just slowly get it all the way in and then either rock your hips or use your knees. My wife does the knees thing.

Remember this, we are made to have missionary and doggy sex. Remember what direction your vagina goes. Most beginners prefer to lean all the way forward.

If you want to make him blow up, play with your clit a little. Even if it isn't your thing, moan a little. I guarantee you'll thank me later (or hate me for making him explode too quickly)

OK first off NEVER just "jump ontop". There is such of thing of injuring your boyfriends penis. When a mans penis is erect and it is bent the wrong way you could seriously injure him. So just saying be a little easy on the guy.

and if your not wet enough that could def cause you problems getting it in. so unless your really turned on and ready to go, you should absolutely apply some lube.

And the being on top job for a women can get easier but some girls never really get into it. Sometimes takes years of practice to figure out how to get you and your man off that way.. Other times you get it first time!! lol.. everyones different!

good luck to you!

All I can suggest is make sure you are relaxed, as your wetness doesn't make it a surefire entrance with ease. If you don't relax, it's very hard to get in.

Sounds like you need some more foreplay to loosen things up.

Considering...the moments are still probably 'new' and 'ackward' to begin with, it's hard to tuely relax.

The easiest way for me to get it in while I am on top is I gently grab his shaft and guide it into me while slowly sitting on him, thats the only way I am able to get it in, is if I guide it inside of me. I hope this works for you because most men love woman on top!
OH and dont worry about the motions you will learn, start rocking slowly up and down, u will also learn what works best for him based on his moans good luck!!

Thank you Think the foreplay things ok, we usually start slow and gradually build up to the sex, so im always very turned on and wet by then. Thanks Millania, il take ur advice and give it another go like uv said to, still apprehensive tho! eek!

I found It was easier for me to learn about being on top if we were on the couch. I like when he is sitting up so it's easier to kiss, snuggle and he can play with my breasts.

and try some lube, you might be pleasantly surprised!

Hey guys

Just wanted to say thank you for the advice! Things have slowly improved and sex this morning was amazing Its def easier on a chair or sofa and the leaning forward helped lots! Hehe

Thank u again! xxx

Girl on top can be a challenge until you get the hang of it. Once you do it's as easy as it looks in the porn flicks. Probably the way that would give you the most control is to straddle facing him while kneeling with your knees on each side of his rib cage. Adjust your position towards his head or feet to get your girl and boy parts to align. Even if you are well lubricated, it may work better to put a bit of lube on him. Then use your hand to guide his penis into you like you were inserting a tampon. Now since his penis is not a tampon applicator, you will need to bend your torso to get things to align properly (this likely means leaning toward his face). Once inside just lower yourself the rest of the way by relaxing your legs. You can then either raise and lower yourself with your legs or just tilt your pelvis to get some motion. Do what feels good to you. Whatever you do will feel good to him! As long as you go slow with the penetration, you are not likely to hurt him.

Easy solution! Make sure your wet enough and start off in the missionary position then have him role over to where you are on top. Then ride that thing. :-)