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  1. 01-23-2010 07:28 AM #1
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    I always knew my boyfriend is not really masculine. I mean he is not feminine, but if you are the kinda person who pay attention on that sort of things you might noticed his movements might be not the typical men attitude. He is more sensitive than other guys. We are together for a year but we know each other longer. We love each other, it was a nice love story how we met.

    We always have a great sex. One day I realised when my fingers approach his anus it really turns him on going a little bit farther. Im scared if he enjoys that. In my head I start thinking he could be gay. I never thought it before even we talked about things like that (I kissed once a girl, he kissed once a guy... drunk, for fun...) The fact of thinking to have sex with someone with my same sex I completelly find it revolting for me. He thinks about the same. I never was scared he could be gay until that sex thing.

    Should I be scared? Is it normal? Do more men like that having sex?
    I dont want to loose him. Am I thinking too much?
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  2. 01-23-2010 07:38 AM #2
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    LOL Sweetie even super macho men can be very aroused by anal play. There are lots of nerves there. The area between his scrotum and anus (the pernium or"taint") is very sensitive for most people. female and male, as is the area around the anus.

    Some men get really conflicted about this. The idea of anal stimulation may really arouse them but actual penetration tenses them up. There is nothing "gay" about it. it part of a normal response and can really push him over the top (you too if he plays there) Nothing a woman and man do together sexually is gay. If you do some reading here on the sex page you will find a lot of discussion on this subject.
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    My darling boyfriend goes absolutely crazy when I touch him in those highly sensitve areas, and am not ashamed to admit that I find it very arousing myself.

    We have also found that after all this wonderful foreplay we have the most incredible sex any couple could possibly imagine.

    I can assure you that neither of us have any gay tendencies whatsoever, we just simply continue to experiment with each other for new and exciting things and positions to enhence our sex life.

    Oh and by the way my boyfriend plays rugby for his university, a real, true and proper macho man, but one who is never afraid to show his feelings and emotions when we are in bed together.

    Like WC has mentioned, do a bit of reading up on the subject, then let go of all your inhibitions and start enjoying a more pure and solid sex life...I promise you, you will not regret it.
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    Before you do "it", both of you have to agree about both your DO's and DONT's just to make sure.
    What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility. - Leo Tolstoy

    The clearest explanation for failure of any marriage is that two people are incompatible; that is, one is male and the other female. - Anna Quindlen
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    Quote Originally Posted by caterpillar79 View Post
    Before you do "it", both of you have to agree about both your DO's and DONT's just to make sure.
    Thanks Cat...I forgot to mention that important factor.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brighteyes View Post
    Thanks Cat...I forgot to mention that important factor.
    No problem, Bright! I have not tread on these grounds yet, so I really have nothing to add but safety precautions.

    You're quite an adventurer!
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    OK, I'm a guy and I'm not attracted to other guys, but I am attracted to my wife's fingers when they poke around.
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    Quote Originally Posted by caterpillar79 View Post
    No problem, Bright! I have not tread on these grounds yet, so I really have nothing to add but safety precautions.

    You're quite an adventurer!

    Shhhh.....please don't go telling everyone lol
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    Rusty Trombone sounds good to me
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    Quote Originally Posted by Futureboy View Post
    Rusty Trombone sounds good to me
    You made me laugh at the word 'trombone'!
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