Thread: Vagina is red.

Invest in some lubrication that should make things much easier. If she's still having the same problem, she could be allergic to latex. If that's the case, then you'll have to use the lambskin condoms.

Thank you ladies. So you think the best way for me stay off sex for a while. Oh Also she has menstruation or something like that. She told me that menstruation last for one month. Can anyone tell me in English what is this mean? Her brother in China told me this. I never knew this word until he told me. He didn't actually tell me, he used the computer to translate it in English for me. Well anyways this menstruation is making the vagina bleeding am I correct. This last for one month. So during that time I was wondering if I am able to have sex with her. The language that she speaks in Mandarin. I can barely understand her. They also speak Cantonese which I can understand. Thanks for help.

What is lampskin condom? I never heard of that brand. Also what kind of lubrication do yall assume. Does the lubrication effect her vagina as well? Does it stinks? Does it stinks my as well? Let me know thanks.

There are all kinds of lubrication in the condom section at the store. Just start with the standard kind, nothing fancy.

Menstruation is her monthly period, where she will bleed for a week. If you are both comfortable having sex when she is bleeding, then it's ok. Some people prefer not to have sex that week, it's really up to her and you.

Lambskin condoms as I know are different from latex condoms. Some manufacturers claim it's from a natural membrane, thinner than the latex types, which will make you "feel" more inside. They are lubricated with "jelly-type" lubricant. And Lambskin is not a "brand" per se, it is "the make" of the condom.

Most use Astroglide for lubrication. I haven't used any personally. But like WC said, you have to engage her to a lot of foreplay and touching.

During a woman's period, though she has discharge (blood), and seems to be wet, she is more sensitive during this time leaving her skin to get irritated easily. If you have sex during her period, please wait until she is almost done with it, but still use some lube.

While there are some women who have unusually long periods, I reckon you have her checked by a GYN for sure. A month long is too much for a period (I meant menstruation) in an ideal setting.

Well I'm not planning on do it. Do you think menstruation and having sex at the same time will cause her not to have babies? Also I went to walgreens and I saw woman's condom. What does it looks like and how does she put it in? Can you explain this? Thanks.

Its either a month or a week. Then she said wait until the next week after until we can have sex again.

Originally Posted by ltsang

Well I'm not planning on do it. Do you think menstruation and having sex at the same time will cause her not to have babies?

Having sex during menstruation and 3-5 days after the period (depending on how long she has hers), she will not get pregnant if that's what you're asking. Look up some literature on the net and also on Planned Parenthood for more info on this.

Originally Posted by ltsang

Also I went to walgreens and I saw woman's condom. What does it looks like and how does she put it in? Can you explain this? Thanks.

I have not tried any of those, so I can't share any on that matter.

I'm just asking if the menstruation will affect the her pregnancy in the future. If I have sex with her during it.