Thread: Is helping yourself okay?

Sunday morning I awake. My wife is already up and in the en-suite having her "one hour a day to herself".
I have a fairly good morning glory. More so than usual.
It was a hot night and we slept with only a sheet on.
I lay on my back, the sheet tenting with me as the centre (aussie spelling) pole.
She walks out of the en-suite, notices that I'm awake and bends down and kisses my mouth.
How could she not notice?
(This is not going where you think it is...)
I get out of bed, wee then shower and nothing comes (pun) of my morning glory.

Later that day I asked if she was feeling okay. It is that time of the month when Little Red Riding Hood pays a visit.
I asked if she felt a bit icky.
"No. I'm fine. Why?" she replied.
"Well, you haven't touched me all weekend" I explained.
"Well, actually, I have. When the door slammed in the wind at 6 o'clock and woke me I had a play with Willy".
"So that's why I had such a big anti-roll bar" (it stops men from rolling off the bed).

Obviously she didn't go "all the way". I would hope I would wake up for that.
But my question is, do you out there in WH world think it is okay for her to enjoy herself with me, but without me knowing?

For the record, I think it was pretty sexy to know afterward. But if she didn't tell me and I never knew, I would feel cheated....hang-on, I wouldn't know so I couldn't feel cheated.

Comments......

i think it is ok personally. of course i would prefer my hubby to wake up during (more exciting to). i have often wanted to wake my hubby with a bj, something about it seems hot. he wouldn't b happy about it though, he isn't a fan of bj, i'm the one who loves give him a bj (funny, usually the woman hates giving bj's & the man loves it lol). idk either way i to think it is hot

Originally Posted by Airmans Sweetie

i think it is ok personally. of course i would prefer my hubby to wake up during (more exciting to). i have often wanted to wake my hubby with a bj, something about it seems hot. he wouldn't b happy about it though, he isn't a fan of bj, i'm the one who loves give him a bj (funny, usually the woman hates giving bj's & the man loves it lol). idk either way i to think it is hot

AS....That is so abnormal..the guy not liking BJ. Though my wife likes it soooo much she usually takes me too far. She wont let me blow in her mouth (says if I do she will kiss me and give it all back....I keep trying but she's too good at knowing when to stop). But it means I can't last as long with penetration. Thought.....Maybe that's her game plan...I must ask her.
She keeps sucking and sucking, sometimes too hard, it gets me really hard but I'm not enjoying it anymore. Softer and slower is the way to go (down).

She has suggested I should wake her with a [obviously can't use that word] kiss, but I can't see how I am going to get my head between her legs without waking her before I get to her sweet tasty honey pot.

yeah, it's weird but it's ok with me, he has always been that way. i have know my husband long b4 we got married & he date one of my friends & i knew then that he didn't care for them. so i know it isn't because of me. something about it for me though is just such a turn on.
i would love it if my hubby woke me up like that. hmmm i would say it is very possible to pull it off just move slowly & gently. but honestly if it were me & i woke up while my hubby was moving my legs & wat not, i wouldn't mind, in fact it might be even better. the visual of waking up just b4 he makes his move would b hot. i'm sure ur wife wouldn't mind if she was accidently woke up b4 u started the deed

I'll let you know.

good luck!

AS....That is so abnormal..the guy not liking BJ.

Some people are so bad at it that it does become irritating or painful. I'm not saying you, or anyone in particular is bad at it, I'm just saying everyone who actually is bad at it, thinks its their best quality. I have no idea where this cultural hysteria comes from.

Originally Posted by SinisterUrge

Some people are so bad at it that it does become irritating or painful. I'm not saying you, or anyone in particular is bad at it, I'm just saying everyone who actually is bad at it, thinks its their best quality. I have no idea where this cultural hysteria comes from.

i understand wat u mean. he is pretty good at tellin me if he is uncomfortable or something hurts. much less once i get going he likes to test my abilities as to how much i can fit in, so he does create some situations as to keep me going down there & he does enjoy it but it's just one of those things that is at the bottom of the list of things he enjoys, he doesn't hate it. so at least i know it's not me otherwise he wouldn't have said something or wouldn't egg me on in the least bit