Thread: Told him to stop while he was giving me oral

Originally Posted by silverpen

Is it okay to tell a guy to stop? I imagine it would be a bit of an ego damager, I know I would be weird if a guy told me to stop giving oral. But what am I supposed to do! Have you ever done it? Or been told to stop before?

It's OK.
I'm a guy, I've been told to stop, and my ego survived unscathed.
Last thing I'd want to do is something that someone finds unpleasant!

(I've been told a lot worse than "stop," and I've survived...)

If you still feel like having sex, but are ready to move past the oral for whatever reason, just reach down and pull at him to come up...and let him know you want him inside of you

Sometimes oral is the best sensation I've ever felt and other times my body is a bit too sensitive too... it depends on me and how I'm feeling and nothing to do with my guy. Just how sometimes they like it lighter and softer when you do oral on them and other times they are less sensitive and want it more intense etc.

I can't imagine why anyone's ego would be bruised because their partner is a little oversensitive in their parts at the moment.

Originally Posted by rcoreyus

Telling him to stop is fine. Even better is to tell him what you would like more.

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