Thread: PLZ read.never opened myself.

im 25 and cuban, im 6'4 225.... i work out live a healthy life. all i do is smoke here n there. stopped drinkin, drink sum wine on sum weekends. i look like i should be hungggg. but the facts are im on thin-line on average size.2-3 inches soft and 6-6.5 hard.
i was in a 7yr relationship with a girl that i was her first. didnt know about sex. so i guess she saw me as average, n we didnt talk about it much.

now im dating and suffering....
i cant get hard sometimes...
i dont feel as much as with my ex...thinking im not big enough.
in my mind im thinking should i take viagra to pump more blood in there and show at least another half n inch and try to look normal? or should i do blood work? or see a doctor.
need help?

6.5 is actually on the large end of the spectrum. Any larger and you start running into problems from being too big (Unless your idea of fun sex doesn't include full penetration.)

If you think your erections aren't as hard as they can be... I suppose it wouldn't hurt to go to a dr and get a physical. If blood isn't flowing there as it should , it could be an indicator blood isn't flowing to other major organs as good as it could. Not to put any scare in you as there is probably nothing wrong but diabetes, heart problems, high blood pressure, etc... can all play a role in your erections. As can low testonsterone, testicular cancer etc.

Those are all on the way least likely to be going on right now end, but there is no harm in getting a physical and make sure your body is otherwise healthy... after that it could just be a mental thing as to why you are not obtaining full erections.

I would not try to self-medicate with viagra, especially without finding out what is causing this in the first place as that can be dangerous.

If your erection isn't as big or as hard... are you not receiving as much pleasure as you would when it was bigger or harder? Is it a mental thing as in you feel bigger so you thinking you are performing better thus enjoying it more? Or is this a physical sensation we are talking about?

6 inches without the added fractions is plenty fine for the average woman who has a vaginal canal depth of about 3-5 inches.. and a typical gspot location of 1 to 3 inches in.

If a woman is not enjoying the sex it almost never has anything to do with how small or big a guys penis is... but how much foreplay he is providing, how much he is paying attention to our responses and giving the kind of stimulation we need. How engaged he is in the act and his passion.

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

If you think your erections aren't as hard as they can be... I suppose it wouldn't hurt to go to a dr and get a physical. If blood isn't flowing there as it should , it could be an indicator blood isn't flowing to other major organs as good as it could. Not to put any scare in you as there is probably nothing wrong but diabetes, heart problems, high blood pressure, etc... can all play a role in your erections. As can low testonsterone, testicular cancer etc.

Those are all on the way least likely to be going on right now end, but there is no harm in getting a physical and make sure your body is otherwise healthy... after that it could just be a mental thing as to why you are not obtaining full erections.

I would not try to self-medicate with viagra, especially without finding out what is causing this in the first place as that can be dangerous.

If your erection isn't as big or as hard... are you not receiving as much pleasure as you would when it was bigger or harder? Is it a mental thing as in you feel bigger so you thinking you are performing better thus enjoying it more? Or is this a physical sensation we are talking about?

6 inches without the added fractions is plenty fine for the average woman who has a vaginal canal depth of about 3-5 inches.. and a typical gspot location of 1 to 3 inches in.

If a woman is not enjoying the sex it almost never has anything to do with how small or big a guys penis is... but how much foreplay he is providing, how much he is paying attention to our responses and giving the kind of stimulation we need. How engaged he is in the act and his passion.

this was really important to me to come here and write this...thanks for everything.... i have wayyy other questions.... should i post another question?

Originally Posted by SinisterUrge

6.5 is actually on the large end of the spectrum. Any larger and you start running into problems from being too big (Unless your idea of fun sex doesn't include full penetration.)

if 6.5 is maximun, why im the smallest of all my friends,n feel small....