Thread: I'm willing to try anything

I've been working with my wife to get her more interested in sex. As you know, she's come a long ways.

So I've been brainstorming what to do about her low libido. She just doesn't have a sex drive. She'll have maybe four orgasms a year. That might be part of the problem, because she's missing out on the pleasure. The only way she can have an orgasm is by nipple stimulation. And she has to be in the right mood, a somewhat erotic mood.

I suggested to her yesterday that I'll get a vasectomy so she can get off the pill, to see if that will increase her sex drive. She was sweet, she understands that I don't really want to do that. My boys want to swim! But I'll do that to help increase her sex drive. She was afraid that if her getting off the pill didn't have any effect on increasing her libido that me having that procedure wouldn't be worth the risk. I guess we could try condoms for a while to test it out first.

She suggested something that I'm curious about. She said to get some Playboy magazines so she can look at the sexy women. She said that it helps her feel erotic because she wants to be sexy like them. And she thinks that most women are turned on by sexy women. (I think she's sexy already the way she is)

I was just wondering what other women think about this? Are you turned on by seeing sexy women? Just curious.

I'm willing to try this, as well as get a vasectomy. I'll do whatever I have to do. Don't worry, I'm already doing the "basics" of showing love to her in the way she likes by quality time, help with kids and housework, etc.