Thread: sex help/advice please...

Your hands are free - use them. Stroke his back, neck, buttocks, see if he likes his nipples played with (some men really like that). Your mouth is free - kiss, lick whatever you can reach. (This is easier in missionary or riding him - there is less you can do if doing doggy style).

Originally Posted by stressed

We often hear out neighbours (well, the woman basically) scream when they have sex for like 20 mins straight. I just don't get this "screaming" part, it just sounds fake to me.
It's only in porn women do that, it's not how it really is...

Ummmm no, it's not just porn women (altho they may well be faking it). I personally am very vocal and my ex b/f could make me vocalise for up to half an hour (to the point where the old guy next door would bang on the adjoining wall). I do scream when orgasming, just can't help it, the rest of the time it's very loud moaning and groaning.

Also a friend of mine does literally scream for as long as she is being penetrated (in case yr wondering how I know, I'm a swinger and have had many 3/somes and 4/some with her).

I think being this vocal is a combination of two things :

1. having a guy who knows what he's doing and who has stamina to actually make you feel that good
2. being relaxed enough to allow yourself to 'let it go' and react as strongly as you feel - but of course that depends on whether you are actually feeling it so intensely.

Please don't fake it tho, guys can tell and it's a huge turn off.

Touch him, run your fingers over his back, lightly scratch him with your nails, squeeze his butt, wrap your legs around him, dig your heels into his butt. Just make him aware that you're there and lovin' it.