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    Default sex help/advice please...

    first time...
    after a men enters you, what do you do next while he's in you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by anna17 View Post
    first time...
    after a men enters you, what do you do next while he's in you?
    plz dont just lay there, moan and scream ur feelings away!.. it will make him get out of his shell

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    well you can kiss him rub him everywhere..arch against him lick him bite him u can do anything u want to him. tell him where to touch or lick u or anything u want.....enjoy how it feels express yourself by shouting moaning talking dirty..the list goes on... lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by cubanlink View Post
    plz dont just lay there, moan and scream ur feelings away!.. it will make him get out of his shell
    I've been thinking... We often hear out neighbours (well, the woman basically) scream when they have sex for like 20 mins straight. I just don't get this "screaming" part, it just sounds fake to me. Sure, it can be erotic to a man but don't men realize that if she starts to scream right away it's fake? Isn't it better to just moan when it really feels nice instead of moaning from the first second just to make him like it more?
    It's only in porn women do that, it's not how it really is...

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    Quote Originally Posted by stressed View Post
    I've been thinking... We often hear out neighbours (well, the woman basically) scream when they have sex for like 20 mins straight. I just don't get this "screaming" part, it just sounds fake to me. Sure, it can be erotic to a man but don't men realize that if she starts to scream right away it's fake? Isn't it better to just moan when it really feels nice instead of moaning from the first second just to make him like it more?
    It's only in porn women do that, it's not how it really is...
    oh here we go... to scream, or not to scream
    the desire to make noise or not make noise is as individual and varied as anything else. i actually saw on the discovery channel, the program was all about human sexuality and evolution.. that the reaction for a female to make alot of noise during sex is actually an evolutionary response. it is something alot of women do at the sonconious level to arouse their male counterpart.. and the reaction is that it works. as a man i can tell you without a doubt that it is not always fake and it when it is not it absolutely has an affect on me.. it can turn me into a sexual animal. i dated a girl who said she could not reach an orgasm without making a little noise. the rythm and sound of her voice help her with breathing and relaxation and boy did it do wonders for me too.. throw in some raunchy talk and dirty words and we would both be cumming in short order

    once he is inside you, do what feels good to you.. it will be exactly what feels good to him also. its science.. its evolution.. its nature

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    Stressed, got to agree with dr.tony.

    You can't generalise it at all... Yessum, off course Actors will play on what ever they have to in order to achieve the desired role.

    But, we are all different creatures and it's a matter of that individual person how they react, respond or desire to act in order to have that sexual compatibility they personally desire, or the outcome they desire
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    My body responds in ways I don't seem to have much more control over. I never contrive a response it just happens. Sometimes I moan, sometimes I scream, sometimes I talk dirty, sometimes I pant, sometimes I am silent and almost holding my breath... I don't hold back and I don't put on ... I just feel and what happens, happens.
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    I think when I am feeling something very intensely and just let my body take over, that's when I scream. Not just during sex, either. Bad fall out of a tree once. Screamed all the way down.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork View Post
    My body responds in ways I don't seem to have much more control over. I never contrive a response it just happens. Sometimes I moan, sometimes I scream, sometimes I talk dirty, sometimes I pant, sometimes I am silent and almost holding my breath... I don't hold back and I don't put on ... I just feel and what happens, happens.
    Exactly, ditto here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork View Post
    My body responds in ways I don't seem to have much more control over. I never contrive a response it just happens. Sometimes I moan, sometimes I scream, sometimes I talk dirty, sometimes I pant, sometimes I am silent and almost holding my breath... I don't hold back and I don't put on ... I just feel and what happens, happens.
    It's kind of how i respond too. I just let the noises and sounds come and when it happens. But like you I make low moans and whimpers,and pants and sometimes just shake...It's all good. I can't say i've come out and screamed...yet...unless moaning out my hubbys name counts.

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