I think I had my first UTERINE ORGASM,is it because it was bigger?

**tiffany76** · 02-15-2010 01:50 PM

I've had sex with two guys before this last guy that I heard was better than average. I was married for 15yrs faithfully. You girls know how we talk about anything about our men but we tell them we don't tell our friends how big they are. Well my friend openly asked how big he was and I did'nt know. So she told me how to do this without him knowing by making him fully erected and then putting my hand beside it with the fingertips pressed lightly against the pubic bone and remember where his tip ended. Which was wrong to do but later I grabbed a school ruler and messured to the line on my palm and it said 5.25 inches. My first boyfriend was a little smaller cuz I could feel the difference with my ex our first time. I told my friend and she said I was missing out on the feeling that you get when a penis is at least 7"long and 5" around that makes her have a uterine orgasm. I asked her what it feels like and she said I would know it if I had one. I have toys my ex bought me but he made sure they was his size. Recently I met this nice guy my friend set up and when he pulled is pants down and I was nerves cuz it was the same size soft than when my ex was hard. So I did the messure trick and it went past my palm and had to use a little vein as a marker. He was the same thickness as my ex but ended up being 7.5-7.75 to be on the safe side. For the first time in my life I felt my cervix being touched and jarred around form a penis and this intense plessure sensation in my upper tummy to the opening of my vagina

. After no longer than 10min doggy style I started to feel a warm tingly sensation through out my whole body. Which felt real close to when I had a orgasm with my clit. But it was building up to something more and I did'nt want it to stop and soon my vagina was pulsating around his shaft until the this huge wave of plessure washed over me and my vagina muscles would contract and release on its own. Plus there was a this nice pressure in my chest I've never felt before. After it died down my body was still lightly shaking and twiching and noticed the covers was a little soaked with a clear slippery liquid. This happen just a week after my husband left me on good terms but he's confused now cuz I told him I wanted him back but after what happen now I don't. I just want to feel that pleasure again but he cant reach that far. Can a another woman plz explain what a uterine orgasm feels like for them and if what happened to me was because of the size? cuz it never happened till I felt these nice pressure points.

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-15-2010 02:00 PM

Your vagina, most womens vagina are not 7.5 inches long... they are much much shorter in lenght than that. A five inch penis would have no problem pressing on your cervix if thats the pressure you desire, in certain positions that shorten your vagina even more than normal. Doggystyle, Legs pulls up over your head should increase the depths your man can reach.

It sounds like this guy just had a good hit on your gspot, not to mention had you mentally arroused by the bug your friend put in your either that bigger = better orgasm. I am not discounting that it wasn't a pleasurable experience, sounds like you squirted and I'm sure it was amazing.

But I doubt its because of his bigger penis. I have a high sex drive, vaginal orgasms, clitoral orgasms and every combination there in. I've had penises that must have been 9inches and one that couldn't have been more than 3. My pleasure has always been more based on the spots they rub against (position plays the biggest role in this) and how much they have me turned on.

I don't think it coincidence that your friends been bragging about how much pleasure you get from a bigger penis, you then finding a bigger penis... and experiencing more pleasure. Sex is mental more than anything else. I think you you were met with a combination of mental arrousal and anticipation along with a man that knew how to position his body and stroke in a way that hit your spots the best.

**WildChild** · 02-15-2010 02:41 PM

Never heard of a uterine orgasm and we all know how much I like to read about my fav subject. Having your uterus bumped against is usually not a pleasant experience.

**Skywatch** · 02-15-2010 08:17 PM

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

Your vagina, most womens vagina are not 7.5 inches long... they are much much shorter in lenght than that. A five inch penis would have no problem pressing on your cervix if thats the pressure you desire, in certain positions that shorten your vagina even more than normal. Doggystyle, Legs pulls up over your head should increase the depths your man can reach.

It sounds like this guy just had a good hit on your gspot, not to mention had you mentally arroused by the bug your friend put in your either that bigger = better orgasm. I am not discounting that it wasn't a pleasurable experience, sounds like you squirted and I'm sure it was amazing.

But I doubt its because of his bigger penis. I have a high sex drive, vaginal orgasms, clitoral orgasms and every combination there in. I've had penises that must have been 9inches and one that couldn't have been more than 3. My pleasure has always been more based on the spots they rub against (position plays the biggest role in this) and how much they have me turned on.

I don't think it coincidence that your friends been bragging about how much pleasure you get from a bigger penis, you then finding a bigger penis... and experiencing more pleasure. Sex is mental more than anything else. I think you you were met with a combination of mental arrousal and anticipation along with a man that knew how to position his body and stroke in a way that hit your spots the best.

Uterine orgasm based on size isn't adding up so well, nor have I heard of a "uterine orgasm" either (though some women do go bezerk if it's rubbed, so perhaps...) but it's possible that contact with the posterior fornix located inside the vagina at the posterior (bottom) wall, and/or perhaps even contact with the cul de sac (Pouch of Douglas) located between the bottom wall and anal canal, created extra sensation. There are indeed women who state having a "deep area" or "deep spot" sensation but they don't know exactly what it is that is being contacted. In order to stimulate the cul de sac the woman needs to be fully aroused/expanded/elasticated and his penis needs to be long enough to push her bottom wall to it. The angle and type of position can play a role as to whether the cul de sac can be contacted even if he is long enough. Doggy position can help in this regard. It could have been psychological, but it could have been physical, or both.

**tiffany76** · 02-16-2010 02:33 AM

(tiffany76)Ok,,,,thank you so much for your feedback on this Skywatch. It was more honest and non spareing than the last feedback to a guys feelings if they read this. This recent guy I met was'nt as good looking as my ex, nor was I turned on by his looks as much and plus I was nerves too. I did'nt get turned on until I felt the diference and it grew from there. After reading this statement I reserched the word FORNIX and thats what I know he was hitting cuz it did'nt happen before for the last 15 years. If I get back with my ex, he has the right to know I slepped with someone else but I don't think I'll tell him. It would crush him if he knew I felt something better than what we had. So how would I go about telling him to put a strap on cuz over the years we have done every position you could think of with the blue pill and him realy hard. I want to get this extream orgasm without him knowing I've felt it before. I realy love him and I don't what to give away what I've done while we was broke up. I've ben looking at sex toys for guys and one of them is called (the perfect ). It's a mold of a young woman bent over and it's like 200 bucks. I don't care how much it costs, cuz I want to tell him its for foreplay/fantasy and tell him I'm pretending I'm holding and guiding his penis into another woman so can tell him to pretend I'm cheating on him with a strap on. I found a strap on dildo that is made of cyberskin(feels like a real penis) and 7"s long 5.5 wide where my ex is 5.0 wide(I know this cuz my thumb and my index finger does'nt touch around something after five), so I'm sure I'll be fine. Like I said this fling was amost 8"s long but I did make a slight ouch sound so he backed off just a little and thats what led to that feeling.

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-16-2010 08:46 AM

I really don't understand what you were saying in your last post tiffany and read it a few times, I'm sorry. :\

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-16-2010 08:50 AM

Are you saying you want him to have sex with one of those rubber woman butts so that you can have sex with a dildo without him wondering why? You said strap on and not dildo so Im confused to you want him to wear the dildo? Do you want to wear it? Or do you just want a regular non strap on type of dildo in the mix?

There are positions you can get into that will make your guys penis hit the spot you crave. If he is 5 inches long, and you lay on your back and keep your legs straight, in the air and straight, him on his knees, your legs straight up parallel to his chest or over your own head... he will be in you deeper than a 7 inch dildo with your legs down.

**tiffany76** · 02-16-2010 12:03 PM

Like I said we tried all ways including the way you said to try. His penis curves up a little like a small banana and would only rub the g-spot but I never orgasmed from this unless I played with my clit and that orgasm feels the same. What I want him to do is put on a strap on with the cyberskin dildo attached to it and use it to hit the spot located beyound the cevix when excited on the colon side

. Which is how I felt a earth shattering orgasm for the first time, I'm 34. Something I left out was I asked laying there on the bed if he could go again and when he was ready. we did the pasistion like you said to try and it felt better than when my husband did it in the past. It's not my husbands fault but it's just how I'm built I guess. So I flipped over to doggy style and the same earth shattering orgasm happen again. So anyways, just went to search for this "the perfect " toy and found it for 230.00 at a adult store. I was shy about this but there was a girl behind the counter and made it easer for me to ask her if I can see how real it felt cuz I planned on buying it. She said ok but use this hand sanitizer and I took it out of the box and it felt just like a real butt when I sqeezed the cheeks. And when i slowly put my finger in the hole,it felt like a realy tight vagina with little bumps at the opening and ribs as you go deeper. She lightly giggled when I asked if it had a cervix and she said you would be suprised how many guys have asked that. I asked why and she said I asked the same thing "why?". The man told her it would make it feel that much more real bumping into something soft and adds a suction affect. After feeling this toy's hole wich felt way better then me cuz I felt myself with my finger before. I did'nt what him to feel it but it's only fair he cums as hard as me so I'm also going to try the milking the prostate I found on the internet. She suggested inserting the cyberskin dildo from behind the toy where the hole leads out to the right depth that he can reach and he wont last long. I asked her how long have you worked here and she said you learn alot in two years. I've ben talking to him and said I would to rekindle the flame tonight and he was so happy to hear that I wanted to safe our marriage. So I ended up buying those toys and some astroglide and going to tell him to listen to me and do what I say when bedroom door closes. I'll feel you in on how it goes afterwards. What I love about this site is that I can get advice and no one knows who me and husband is. I plan on doing something else but I'll fill in later so wish me luck.

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-16-2010 12:12 PM

Good luck, tiff. Oh okay so I think I understand... you got him a toy for him to use and you one for you to use so that you can both share in the experience of trying a toy. Thats sounds fair and makes sense. As long as he's sexually open minded I'm sure he'll give it a go. Even if he's not interested in the toy for him, maybe he would enjoy watching you play with your toy and make out with you while you do it, he can even be the one that holds it -- me and my guy do that occasionally just for fun. His penis is bigger than the toy we use so its not a replacement ... its just fun to play around.

**Skywatch** · 02-16-2010 12:13 PM

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

Are you saying you want him to have sex with one of those rubber woman butts so that you can have sex with a dildo without him wondering why? You said strap on and not dildo so Im confused to you want him to wear the dildo? Do you want to wear it? Or do you just want a regular non strap on type of dildo in the mix?

There are positions you can get into that will make your guys penis hit the spot you crave. If he is 5 inches long, and you lay on your back and keep your legs straight, in the air and straight, him on his knees, your legs straight up parallel to his chest or over your own head... he will be in you deeper than a 7 inch dildo with your legs down.

Sorry but I just don't think that position will make a 5" penis feel longer than a 7" penis, though I admit I don't have any doctor study data to support me on this. I have watched a lot of amateur porn though and I've seen guys with 5" lengths put women into that exact position and go to pounding away and the women always took that length without any evidence of pain even in that position. It will indeed close the distance some, but 2+ inches doesn't seem correct.