Thread: My husband wants anal sex really bad

Wow he sounds huge, how big across is he(girth wise) like if u put a ruler to his "thickness" my H is about 2 inches across so I think is fairly normal? anything bigger for anal would hurt me.
Its hard for us to do anal too, he is about 8 inches long so when we do it he doenst go all the way in, but certainly enough to give both of us pleasure,he prob goes in about 5 or 6 inches
The BEST thing you can do is get yourself some great lube, I LOVE Astroglide, my FAVORITE lube, then use a ton of lube when you are going to play
MAke sure obviously that u have had a good bowel movement a couple hours befor, then of course shower so you feel nice and clean, try buying a smal dildo about 1 inch across maybe 4 inches long, maybe even a "pocket rocket" type deal
this way when ur ready to "play" he can use this on you to loosen you up down there
OK now here is the toughest part: The first few seconds are the hardest/most challenging (even for me and we have tried anal about 10 times) is getting it in, FULLY relax and breathe deep
unfort I even have to take nice deep breathes before he gets it in
The first few seconds are tough so MAKE sure u relaaaaax alll the way after about 1.5 inches is in you, the rest will glide in smooth, you must realize that it will feel very uncomfortable at first..but dont give up once he gets that 1.5 inches in! its a very common reaction to just want to give up at this point and throw him off(thats when most women give up-right when its first going in) women dont realize that once after about 2 inches go in-the rest will just glide right in MUCH easier. Women give up RIGHT Away and dont give their man a chance to go all the way or almost all the way in, then hubby and wife are both frustrated bc they REALLY wanted to try it but couldnt
I thnk the beginning stages of anal are the absolute hardest but not impossible!!
After my husband finally gets most of it in, is when I start to play with my clit
I can not STRESS to you how much easier it is to "take him" while I play with my clit, it helps me take him SO much easier-I am more relaxed
and boy do you feel sooo wonderful and naughty taking it this way lol
You will be surprised at how pleasurable anal can be! Now you can have him thrust slowly until he cums(you will prob cum urself!)
make sure he either pulls out when he cums**
**just trust me on that last part-it will be MUCH less of a mess if he pulls out
and please finally, update us! let us know if you got to have some fun!
its been about 2 months since we did it this way and I actually cant wait until we do it this way again, its really fun and we only do it occasionally so we have some type of "treat" we can do "once in a while"
it takes way too much planning and prep to do it every weekend
but please let us know good luck!

If he is open to this, its a good idea. He'll learn to go slow, and will understand what its like for you.

BTW: Ask him to pick out a dildo that is the same size he is. (That way he won't bring home something small )

Originally Posted by WildChild

Oh do him first, then he can tell you what you need to do to make it more pleasurable.