Thread: Advice needed for this dude

2 questions

Do you have suggestions on any new positions I can use to impress my gf?

We are both Indian and she told me that many women think guys from some races are bigger than guys from other races. Is this true?

Are you American Indian(native american) or indian from india?

India

hmm I've normally heard that about black american men but tbh I think it's just a generalisation that may not be entirely true, but who knows?! lol

okay cool my gf must have been joking then

well i wouldn't jump to the conclusions she was joking. Like Kerry said, it is a stereotype that certain races have larger (or smaller in some cases) penises than others. She could have been very well serious. Whether the stereotype is true or not.

Yes many women do.
Black guys are known for being big, American white men are known to be average to above average, then comes Hispanic men and then asian (including Indian) are said to be small.

I could tell you new positions but i would have to know what you two have tried already and how much experimenting you two are open to.

Sheesh. So other women think this too. I thought my gf was joking. How come you include Indian with Asian? How old are you btw? We are both 26.

Originally Posted by justarandomguy26

Sheesh. So other women think this too. I thought my gf was joking. How come you include Indian with Asian? How old are you btw? We are both 26.

Those stereotypes have been around forever... I'm surprised you, yourself, have not heard them. However, most people... even if they repeat politically incorrect statements about penis size.. Know that all those particular stereotypes are myths.

The porn industry seems to be heckbent on hyping some of those myths... but as a female in my early 30's even as a teen I knew they were BS. Between me and my friends everyone slept with people of different races and girls talk... and myths were dispelled all the time.

For "new" positions... like the other poster said... there really isn't and hasn't probably been 'new' positions since the invention of sex but there are several that will be 'new' to you... but we'd have to know what you have done to offer those suggestions.

If you are concerened with being a good lover for your girlfriend... it won't be in the positions. It will be in the patience, taking the time to warm her up... lots of time. Not rushing to the 'good stuff' , realizing like the 'good stuff' is in the journey to getting there .

Paying attention to her responses, if she likes something, hang in there for a while then try something new, pay attention to her responses , go back to the tried and true licks and touches she's responding to, vary them with attempts to find other spots that stimulate her.. and so on.

After sex, if you know shes orgasmed, hold her, kiss her, tell her she is beautiful. If you think she didn't... don't act like sex is over, go back to focusin on her with touches/oral until she has or is just plain tired. THEN hold her, kiss her, tell her she's beautiful.

That will make you a far better lover than some double lasso cowgirl splits with a yodel move.