my last thread! last experience(i cant feel)

**cubanlink** · 02-22-2010 08:27 AM

my last experience was the following, i even took half a blu pill. my erection i would say 6'' maybe 6'25 IVE NEVER KNOWN WHAT I HAVE IN GIRTH. DONT KNOW HOW TO MEASURE THAT. but here i go

i get somewhat hard. i stick it in because i know feeling the vagina i get more aroused and fully hard! when i get that full hardened feeling i start having sex and she is known to get wet fast. well im in and enjoying and i start wondering inside my head is she enjoying it...because in the back of my head i know shes had bigger her ex(8") but w.e i keep going i try to concentrate more into it so i get harder but i loook at my penis going in n out of her vagina and she is (WET) but i see that my penis is just going in n out with no pressure! and i move her around and its the same thing i feel no pressure!!!!!! so i put her doggy style!! and i start hitting harder and faster and she is farting ..from her vagina! which means she is deft. not enjoying it its farting because her vagina walls are getting air so i get close and continue..the farting doesnt stop, i stop still concentrating!!!! and i put her on top and my penis went in quick with no pressure!...

i stop the whole thing put my pants up! n told her this is not working out. im starting to think were not meant for eachother her eyes got watery as she saw me walk out!.
whats going on ?
am i having ED? i lost my hard on due to not feeling.
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**ItsASecret** · 02-22-2010 08:43 AM

So let me get this straight, because she is wet and clearly physically aroused, because her vaginal walls have relaxed and therefore can easily accommodate a penis, because you have a regular average sized penis, because she is enjoying it....you think that the whole experience is a totally negative thing?

IVE NEVER KNOWN WHAT I HAVE IN GIRTH. DONT KNOW HOW TO MEASURE THAT

Take a measuring tape and wrap it around the base of your shaft, you will now have a measurement of your girth.

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-22-2010 08:47 AM

I'm in shock. I can't believe you did that to that girl. You have made her feel horrible about something that YOU were causing. Ugh. If she was queefing its because YOU were pushing air in there... if she was WET, its because you were arrousing her, you were so busy watching your stroke, so busy trying to be mister perfect instead of just enjoying her. Now because of all your hang ups about your penis size ... you have given her hang ups she will live with forever too. Congrats on spreading the feelings of inadequecy.

**Ros2007** · 02-22-2010 08:51 AM

let me get this straight.
You stopped having sex with her, pulled your pants up, told her it wasn't going to work, and LEFT!?????
Wow. That was harsh! Personally, I would never let my man back if he did something like that to me.
First off- Just because you weren't as large as her ex means absolutely NOTHING! It also doesn't matter that she was (as you say) farting with her vagina. That happens to all women and all it means is that there was a air pocket in there. When you are having sex and you take your penis out and put it back in that happens sometimes. ESPECIALLY if your girl is extremely wet! Seems to me that you have some personal issues to work on. Seems like you are causing most of your problems by thinking too much. How can you have a connection through sex and enjoy yourself so that she can enjoy herself (that's half the battle) when your are making assumptions about her not enjoying sex.

**Fallen1** · 02-22-2010 08:53 AM

I have to agree with the previous posters.

**Ros2007** · 02-22-2010 08:54 AM

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

I'm in shock. I can't believe you did that to that girl. You have made her feel horrible about something that YOU were causing. Ugh. If she was queefing its because YOU were pushing air in there... if she was WET, its because you were arrousing her, you were so busy watching your stroke, so busy trying to be mister perfect instead of just enjoying her. Now because of all your hang ups about your penis size ... you have given her hang ups she will live with forever too. Congrats on spreading the feelings of inadequecy.

I AGREE COMPLETELY!! Im disgusted by this. And my heart goes out to that poor girl. How awful

**PJhavinfunagain** · 02-22-2010 11:14 AM

My heart is breaking for this poor girl... you were so wrapped up in yourself you had no compassion for her and her feelings. Now not only are you messed up over sex and insecurities now she may be as well. Congrats!

**xJanex** · 02-22-2010 11:56 AM

That poor girl.. I cant believe you did that to her thats prob one of many of the worst things you could do..
Its not a competition to see whos mr big shes no longer with her ex and now she prob wont even want to have sex with you again how satisfied she must feel with someone stopping throughout sex and walking off being a complete about it.. if you actually cared for the girl then you wouldnt of done such a thing.. and she will be a complete idiot if she goes to you..

**dr.tony** · 02-22-2010 12:00 PM

oh my.. well you certainly did make here feel bad. as insecure as you are about your penis size, and perhaps you do have a slim jim, she is twice as insecure about everything she has. why were you discussing the size of her exe's penis to begin with? was it something you brought up? something you just had to know? i can hardly believe that she would bring up something like that in any conversation. so that pretty much shows you have typical "penis eny" or serious feeling of inadequacy. were you communicating with her at all duting sex or just ultimately concerned about the in and out action?
now here is a bit of bad news for you...
females will rarely admit if its not big enough. and if her ex was packing heat, and you are lacking meat, then she may have not been "feeling" you the way she did him. girls get used to certain sizes. but take it from someone who is packing something, its not a bowl of cherries. on the other end of the spectrum you have to be gentle and deal with pain and discomfort until she gets used to it. my fiance had a very small vagina when we first started having sex, but it gotten used to me and become more accomidating, but it took about 4 months of sex 3 times a week to do so.
it would probably take that long for her to shrink back, and maybe for your girl to shrink back also, and she will. however.. it is not going to matter because you may have scarred her emotionally and if i were her i would not be interested in someone that is too concerened about the size of his weiner to enjoy sex..

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 02-22-2010 12:11 PM

Okay, deep breathe...................

Now that you've read our reactions you can pretty much guess what her thoughts and feelings are huh..

I think you need to march over there and give her a hug and tell her it's NOT her, it's you, your frustration, perhaps even in-securities, you don't treat people like that, it isn't her fault, she is turned on by you, congrats, she likes being with you, be proud.

CW