Different sex drives to keep the balance?

**Rediscovered** · 04-19-2010 09:01 AM

I am in a relationship with a man who shares my (high) sex drive--we are both what you would consider Type A/introverts. We are very similar in personality.

We do get things done because we make a point of it--but we make our chores just as fun and sexual as we can--

For example, we worked on clearing some brush last weekend and then later stripped naked to do a tick check on each other, lol. So fun to be with someone you match in almost every way.

After having spent a large part of my life with someone who did not share my sex drive/passionate side, etc.--I can say it drove us apart and we became just roommates and friends rather than husband and wife. I hope to never live my life that way again.

**A Dying Breed** · 04-19-2010 09:59 AM

I have no idea what a "type a" personality is. Never been into stereotypes, really.

Anyways, me and my girlfriend have a very similar sex drive. We pretty much used to have sex every day or more, since we live together. Lately I have been taking a blood pressure medicine that lowers my desires to 4-5 times a week, but I still don't mind help getting her off.

It can be a bit annoying when days I don't want sex she's sitting there in front of me playing with herself, almost taunting me. But I still don't really mind because at least it's better than a woman who is the complete opposite

**WildChild** · 04-19-2010 10:35 AM

Type A is a classification of personality typing. If I remember right they are "action/aggression", go, go, go, want it their way, want it now, not much planning or thought, aggressive. In the past they were what was wanted in management but we are now seeing the result of that and newer management and planning thought is leaning more toward different model.

**A Dying Breed** · 04-19-2010 10:58 AM

Originally Posted by WildChild

Type A is a classification of personality typing. If I remember right they are "action/aggression", go, go, go, want it their way, want it now, not much planning or thought, aggressive. In the past they were what was wanted in management but we are now seeing the result of that and newer management and planning thought is leaning more toward different model.

yeah sounds like "type a" management did such a good job with the economy rofl

No, me and my girlfriend have very high libidos, but I don't think we are very aggressive except once we are under the covers

**Rediscovered** · 04-19-2010 12:04 PM

When I refer to myself as a type A personality, I'm referring to being a bit of an obsessive-compulsive, anal-rententive, list-making type of person. Not aggressive nor hostile! Still sweet in nature, lol~

**sungem77** · 04-19-2010 12:17 PM

my boyfriend and i both have high sex drives. we are together 3 years and the sex is still as great if not better than when we first met. thank god. i finally found someone who can keep up with me. my marriage ended because my ex husband just wasn't that interested. my bf and are are both very passionate about alot of things, not just each other. maybe that has something to do with it. relationships work when both people want them to work.

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