I'd like to go to an adult nude beach with my gf. How did anyone feel the first time?
I'd like to go to an adult nude beach with my gf. How did anyone feel the first time?
I'm not re what you mean by 'adult' nude beaches. Here in Australia the nude beaches are all family-friendly, ie there are often children there as for many who go there nudism is a way of life. 'Adult' gives it the connotation that there may be sex there but I doubt that would be the case anywhere as sex in public is generally illegal. If you mean just your average nude beaches as found in various places around the world, go for it!
If you're ok being naked with your partner then there shouldn' be any issue with going nekid at a beach. From my experience no one is going to particularly look at you, and if they do-so what? Nude beaches aren't sexual places, they are somwhere to enjoy the sun and the surf and feel free.
"I met in the street a very poor young man who was in love. His hat was old, his coat worn, his cloak was out at the elbows, the water passed through his shoes, - and the stars through his soul."- Victor Hugo
Have you seen any of the HBO specials where they show nudist camps? It certaintly doesn't look like the back stage of a porno shoot... more like a bad dream where everyone in walmart is naked at the same time, only some of the men still have on black dress socks. Its not arrousing type vibe they give off.
I am not saying because they look bad.... persay... I'm saying that I doubt they walk around aroused by just about everyone they see naked no more than a person would typically get aroused in a room full of clothed people. I'm sure if they saw someone that was attractive to them -- they'd get aroused as would be kind of human nature.... so I don't know how they handle that.
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
All I can think of in regards to this is the Seinfeld Apology episode when Jerry's girlfriend was naked all the time and he had an argument with George about 'good naked' and 'bad naked'.
George: So she coughed.
Jerry: Coughing? Naked? It's a turn-off, man.
George: Everything goes with naked.
Jerry: When you cough there are thousands of unseen muscles that suddenly spring into action. It's like watching that fat guy catch a cannonball in his stomach in slow motion.
George:You spoiled spoiled man. You know how much mental energy I expend just trying to picture women naked?
Jerry: But the thing you don't realize is that there's good naked and bad naked. Naked hair brushing - good. Naked crouching - bad
haha and the part when he is grossed out when she is trying to open the pickle jar *quivers*...bad naked.
There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.
Ha Ha Ha, HD said: "more like a bad dream where everyone in walmart is naked at the same time, only some of the men still have on black dress socks"
That's 'bout it exactly! I've visited a nudist camp here in VA couple of times. Amazing how fast you get used to seeing everyone naked. And, like has been said, not sexual at all!
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It's all a matter of what you get used to. Years I had a conversation with a young man who had spent several years in the US studying and living. He had returned to Iran not long before the revolution and then spent 3 years trying to get back out. He said in the US he'd lived in a beach city and had thought nothing of women in bathing suits and other skumpy attire, walking through stores and down the street. But that things got more and more repressive in Iran (which had once been very open and advanced for women) and the chador was required, that the tiniest peek of an ankle or a whisp of a woman's hair, was enough to cause a response.
If we all ran around naked, being dressed would probably be really sexy.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
Man here in Korea we have these bathhouses things which are really popular, and everyone walks around naked. Lemme tell ya, even the objectively attractive people do NOT elicit any sort of response.
Just doesn't work that way. Unless you're a creep. Which can be possible.
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