No SEX before MARRIAGE.

**Tabz** · 02-25-2010 08:14 PM

Living in 21st centuray, but i don't know. I'm more in the whole traditional mentality thing. I'm 18, and i'm planning on waiting untill i get married to have sex

. i dont mind not having sex, and it don't really bother me if others talk about it, i mean i can't really miss, what i never had? But i was just curious about other peoples views, on my idea of sex before marriage.

Get back to me

Take caree x

**LanaBear** · 02-25-2010 08:24 PM

You'll find there are many different opinions here regarding that. Somewhere this is a thread about how old we all were when we lost our virginity. Take a look at it, it enlightening.

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...9-how-old.html

Even better yet, read the first time thread. Many wish they had waited...

There's no right or wrong, you do what you want when YOU feel comfortable.

**Tabz** · 02-25-2010 08:28 PM

Interestingg..
Well thank you for you're responce

**ocularone** · 02-25-2010 08:30 PM

i am 25, just got out of a 4+ year relationship and am in another relationship now that i am sure she is the one for me..but i am still waiting for marriage. at least i am DESPERATELY trying

. So far it has been hard but i can say i am glad i have done it.

**Tabz** · 02-25-2010 08:32 PM

Soo you're a Virgin?
Oh WOW
I never thought many Guys ever waited.
I mean did you not get teased from your friends, when you were a teen ?

WB

**drchandra** · 02-25-2010 08:33 PM

The act of marriage shouldn't be the main factor. It is how long do you know someone before you get married. You should be commended for waiting to have sex before marriage. But, if you find someone and get married too soon without knowing them it is just as bad.

**Tabz** · 02-25-2010 08:41 PM

Originally Posted by drchandra

The act of marriage shouldn't be the main factor. It is how long do you know someone before you get married. You should be commended for waiting to have sex before marriage. But, if you find someone and get married too soon without knowing them it is just as bad.

oh ofcourse. When i get married, i dont think i will really look for a type of person to marry. Cause you're ideal husband might have 'this' and 'that. but they may not be the ideal person for YOU. I would prob lookk for the chemistry, and the connection we have, the 'click' you know ? look for values such as honestry and respect, passion and excitement.. *getting carried away here. haha*

And course i will know them. I don't think it's about years you know someone, i don't think it's about knowing every detail about a person, that proves YOU KNOW THEM. i think it's the little things, like when they give you a certain, look and you know what it means

and for some it doesn't take yeaars to discover.. ?

**ocularone** · 02-25-2010 08:44 PM

Tabz, i didn't really discuss my sex life (or lack there-of

) with my friends when i was a teen. I have been ragged about it a bit by some people..but they aren't my friends. Because my real friends would never do that..

Drchandra, i completely agree with you.

I am also not saying everyone should wait until they are married to have sex. This has just been my decision and honestly i think it will be awesome to be able for my wife to know that she is the first and last person to ever know me in that special way.

**Tabz** · 02-25-2010 08:48 PM

Originally Posted by ocularone

Tabz, i didn't really discuss my sex life (or lack there-of

) with my friends when i was a teen. I have been ragged about it a bit by some people..but they aren't my friends. Because my real friends would never do that..

Hmmm you're right, All my friends are supporting my views, even the guys. They respect me for it, which is lovely

Originally Posted by ocularone

. i think it will be awesome to be able for my wife to know that she is the first and last person to ever know me in that special way

Seee this is my whole reason! I mean i think it's really important for me to have that special bond with my husband, in a way i have never have with another before, go with him to a place i've never been with no one. Think it would be really meaningful, a new thing for me to experiance with the person i want to spend the rest of my life with

**Tabz** · 02-25-2010 08:49 PM

CORRECTION;

Originally Posted by ocularone

Tabz, i didn't really discuss my sex life (or lack there-of ) with my friends when i was a teen. I have been ragged about it a bit by some people..but they aren't my friends. Because my real friends would never do that..

Hmmm you're right, All my friends are supporting my views, even the guys. They respect me for it, which is lovely