Thread: Problem with condom

Recently I have started sex with my partner. but what is very disturbing thing that when my hubby gives me fast thrusts (at the last moment when he is about to cum) condom bursts. Both of us prefer condom as contraceptive but this problem irritates us all the time. could anyone help me out??

I can think of four reasons why this might be happening:

1. Make sure when he puts the condom on that he leaves some space at the tip of the condom for the sperm to flow into when he cums.

2. Try using a lubricant during sex. Thereby there will be less friction between you both and the thin plastic walls of the condom.

3. Don't buy cheap condoms (like lifestyles) or use old condoms

4. Make sure that the condoms he's using are not too small for him, or he'll be more apt to break them as he swells as well.

Hope this helps

thank you Jvin. probably your second solution may help(edit) could you give me some suggestions on how I can put condom on.

Take out a condom. But, instead of putting it on him right away, put it between your cleavage (so long as you're still wearing your bra). Make sure he's watching. Tell him when he's ready he can take the condom to put on. Gives him seductive eyes. But, then lick, rub, and rub him in all his erogenous zones until he can't take it anymore and has to reach for that condom.

Have fun : )

Jivin you are really expert friend. I am very new to sex. (edit)give some tips on oral sex and positions. I want to please him very much.

As per positions, those I suggest you google as many are hard to describe and googling them will give you nice images to work from.

But if you want to please him and yourself, my personal fav is me on top, facing him leaning forward on my arms, but don't lift off the penis, rub back and forth. The faster you go, the faster you'll both be likely to cum. Your clit will be rubbing against his pelvis and thats why in this position is is easier for both of you to get off.

As per oral I have a lot of tricks I use. My personal favourite (for circumsized men) is pulling the skin (gently not to the point of hurting) towards the base of the penis and holding it there. Meanwhile I stimulate the shaft and head with my tongue. This really heightens the sensation for him. You can lick him like an ice cream cone. Put him in your mouth and go up and down his shaft real slow, working your way to faster and faster. Always make sure it is covered in slobber. No one likes a dry job. When its good and wet, go down put your hand around his head and slide it down his shaft... hand over hand... it'll blow his mind! Make sure to lick and likely suck on his balls while stroking with your hand. Use your hands to stimulate the surrounding areas of his pelvis and legs while you're giving him oral. And if you guys are really daring. Tickle his anus and work your way up to anal stimulation + oral (use lube). That is really amazing!

thank you so much jivin. both me and my partner getting excited we are about to start our session. just I want to ask you how to proceed for anal. he is very adamant today for anal. but I dont like.

lol..TROLL

I know... you try to be helpful : (