Quote Originally Posted by cuff View Post
If you have zero desire for the act of sex, try pleasing him in other ways sexually. Such as oral and manual stimulation. That shows him you are putting forth the effort and care what he feels and care about his needs.
Given the past history, and the near definate impact it has had on her view on sex and sexual acts, this is a mistake. I agree with the others, it will take you time to be able to associate sex with intimacy, and as long as you guy knows whats going on, and is willing to work with you through it, there is no need to push yourself through sex acts that currently make you uncomfortable.