Thread: Lesbians/Bi sexuals

Hey everyone. Ive been having a really hard time the last year or so..Im Bi sexual and I feel like I cant tell any of my friends or family. I decided to just brush it off and act %100 straight, but lately I find myself attratcted to women much more then men. I have been with women and men but I find that my attraction towards the different sex's often changes. Illl be attracted to guys, and then a few months later ill be attracted to girls. Im seriously so confused. If I really was bisexual would I be feeling like this? Or would i just know. I feel like I have no one to talk to in my own life, I dont think people would understand, which is why I came on here..I could use some help. Anyone in the same boat?
thanks everyone. xo

Yes! I'm in the exact same boat, I'd say. In my situation, I lost my virginity to a guy when I was eighteen. But I'm, now, nearly twenty-four, and haven't lost it to a woman yet. Everytime I go on dating sites, though, to find a female, I end up finding another man to be intimate with. And, although I like jacking men off, I don't feel anything during sex with them, except sometimes disgust. But physical things about them I am attracted to, like dimples, eyes, c**k, lol! I also thought I could brush it aside, when it was clear that my mom didn't want to talk about it, and was disgusted whenever I brought it up. And my dad is kind of standoffish, too. Plus, I recently became a mother, so I thought I would be judged for being a bisexual mother, maybe. So I pushed it aside, but it still comes back, almost stronger than before. If my son was going through the same thing, though, I would encourage him to open up to me about it. That's why it bugs me that my parents act like it's wrong and I can control it, and not make it happen. So I know exactly how you feel! I think, if you were gay or straight, you would just know. But being bisexual is just a constant, "I want a man tonight", "I want a woman tomorrow night" kind of a thing

I'm bi but married. Honestly best advice I can give you is be you. Most likely your friends will except it. Family may be different. All I can say is you dont need to tell them unless you become in a commited relationship with a woman. And not for nothing if people dont like it. Fudge em!

thanks for the adivice guys ! Its nice to know im not alone and that being confused it normal. Its just annoying not knowing what i want...i would be scared to date a guy because i would fear that my attraction may fade and i would want a woman or vice versa. Relationships scare me lol, im nearly 20 and have never been in one for over a month. again, thank u!