Yeah, my first time, the guy was worried about me, too, but just 'cause I was a virgin and he probably thought I would regret it, or would've wanted it to be more special the first time. I don't know, but he cried, 'cause of it, lmao!! Oh, that sux, that you bled. Was it, maybe, 'cause you weren't in the habit of masturbating, before you lost your virginity? I don't remember bleeding, but I think I might've popped my own cherry with a blush brush three years before losing my virginity, lol! So embarrassing to admit! Well, just keep trying it with him, I guess, and gradually get into hotter, more kinkier things, as you get more comfortable with each other. I've had sex eight and a half times, now, with four different partners, and still haven't cum. But there were extenuating circumstances, such as being nervous 'cause of losing my virginity the first time, getting pregnant the second time, having an overly dominant and selfish mate the third, fourth, fifth, sixth and seventh and half time, and using a condom with a guy who lasted like five minutes the eighth time :-/ I'm still hoping it gets better with time myself!
Yeah I'm not worried about him not cuming but I was just surpised that he didn't. It gets better I know that but still....
When we flipped I felt something wet and sticky which to me sounds like cum but he didn't have a full body orgasm. Do you feel the full body orgasm? Like u said we were in the shower and that might have washed away the floids I'm guessing.
um i've only had sex once i didnt really feel anything once things started going. i was also wet but once we dryed off i was really really tight and it was hard to enter that was uncomfortable. did you bleed? because i bled a lot!
I didn't start enjoying my sex life for a week or two after I had sex for the first time. It took my boyfriend about that long to cum, and I didn't figure out how I could orgasm until about a year ago. It's just one of those things you have to play around with to see what works. There's no rush. ;p
Also, if you feel dry, use some lube. Dry sex can give you some nasty cuts and brush burn.
Tightness can be from anxiousness. It might be pointless to suggest relaxing... but it's true. Tightening up down there won't help much, especially when you're dry.
Some girls bleed a lot, others not so much, and some not at all. I was the latter. Not one drop from me. It didn't feel like anything, actually. And that's just nerves. You feel a lot more when you learn to relax.
I know this is a strange thing to ask but how do you relax because I was only thinking about how stupid I must look because I don't have a clue of what's going on. So I really didn't enjoy it as much as I wish I had. I know it gets better from here tho