Thread: Frustrated over oral

I would ask why you are so bent on making this relationship work? How long have you been together? He sounds like he is completely inconsiderate of your feelings and pretty self-centered. While you keep thinking of ways to make him happy. Is he trying near as hard to make sure you are happy?

Nika!!!

with all my confidence i m telling you that he is using u...and in long run u would be hurt more if u do not control it now....

like u, me also thinking it is just like being a slave sex girl (please this is my opnion..do not be offended) to give oral....

if you want to give him 2nd chance , just refuse him for oral and see....

if he loves u ..he will come to you....
otherwise believe me ...u deserve better guy....
and another door would be open for you.....

good luck

Hello again. Wow. He's throwing hints honey, asking for something he know you can't give...everyday-type-time. And to beat all, he wants a girl who shuts up and takes what he's dishing out in the bedroom. He may not come out and say it but either he wants to c other people who are more nearby or he wants you to move in together so that he can get that all-of-the-time quality time. He wants things his way with no back talk or discussion as to 'how I want my head just do it like I want you to'! Kick back and check the scenery....don't bring up the conversation any more and when he asks for his everyday blow job, tell him you don't have the urge for it and move on. If he really does care he'll either want to open up more on the subject or the relationship will fizzle from there.... Try not to let it get as far as the fizzle sweets. Feel free to BE FREE after any more concerns. Holla back!

From a males point of view.

Sorry to say, but...
The ladies are all right.
He is using you.
You are the puppet and he has the strings.