Thread: how many no oral and anal???

I have been in sex life with my husband for 14 yrs and experienced almost all
kind of intercourse style...(vaginal, oral, anal etc)

but soon we got adjusted on vaginal sex only...(yes ofcourse with different positions and different styles..)

but Anal and oral we are not doing anymore...

(Anal :we did once and it was so painful that i cried for 3 days and my husband also not comfortable on that seeming filthy) and

(oral: also b/c of me..haha.....jaw pain and gagging but also i feel this something disgusting)...

Anyway my question is that how many women is doing this only to please their BF or husband ....otherwise personally they do not like it......????

I am not religious so I want to know that am I alone not to like Anal and oral both????
Am I too much conservative or backward????

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anal was not easy at first, but now I find extremely satisfying and pleasurable for me. Love it!

oral too, is satisfying for me. Not that I orgasm from giving it, but I find I feel very powerful, much in control, excited by giving oral to my partner.

'spect this is not what you're lookin for, but is my feelings
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You do come over as being a bit conservative. But you shouldn't participate in acts if you really don't like them. There are things that I do for my husband that I'm pretty indifferent about (they don't do much for me) but the pleasure I see that he gets makes it worthwhile. Its all about giving and receiving pleasure and I get pleasure from giving as much as receiving.

Hey sweets. I don't think you're being too conservative. Anal is something you have to get used to but many women don't bother because of the pain. If it's done a certain way all you'll feel is the pleasure. My husband and I stopped doing anal long ago. Oral I love giving because it's something I enjoy. My point being, if I don't like it, we don't do it.

Back when we had an active sex life, my wife and I did anal fairly often - she enjoyed it (I'm pretty sure since she would ask for it sometimes, and seemed to orgasm quickly that way).

She always hated doing oral, has done it maybe 5 times in 30 years. (much to my sadness). I really enjoy giving and receiving oral.

oral yes but anal no way, i have never tried it and i have no intention of trying ,

I do oral on my boyfriend because I like to, I enjoy it. I get satisfaction in giving pleasure, he reciprocates and feels the same. I'm rather attracted to my boyfriend and very aroused by the mere site of his equiptment, playing with it orally and manually up close during oral is exciting for me.

My boyfriend never mentioned anal, but I brought it up and we have tried because I am a curious girl who wants to explore sex with my partner in all the forums we discover. It didn't work the first few times but the final time we had sucess. It was a very intense experience, nothing I'd want every day. Not even weekly, but not something I'm against trying again when the mood hits.

I definitely enjoy oral. Both giving and receiving. Like the girls said, although I dont orgasm by giving it to him, it turns me on by seeing him so turned on...And then I getto anticipate receiving it in return!

As for anal...my husband wanted to try it for a while, and when we were drunk, we did it and it felt really good. Since then, we have tried it, and although sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesnt, it hasnt felt as good. I think its because Im not as relaxed as it was. But it is definitely something that Im willing to keep trying in hopes that it will feel like it did the first time, and also because my husband enjoys it.

But it doesnt really matter how someone else feels about these things. Religious or not, its your choice what you want to do with your body, or what you want to do with someone elses. If you can let go of the taboo and beliefs you may hold that it is "dirty" then you may enjoy yourself

Been in a relationship for 15+ years.

My wife did oral (up to a certain point) until 8 years ago and anal was not even allowed to be talked about (fine with me). She never allowed me to do oral on her, even though i would suffer some minor discomfort for her to feel exquiste pleasure.

There is no such thing as 'normal' but i wonder why one does not want to give pleasure to a partner, especially a committed long term partner. This is the question I keep asking.

my husband enjoys anal, we've tried it once on me and I'm just not into it. Oral is another story all together, I love giving and receiving. It is something that I had to get used to because it was not something I would do for my ex which is probably why he's my ex, but I love giving oral because it turns him on so much and I love to hear him moan