What Do You Think??

**Fatin** · 03-18-2010 01:11 AM

me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together since new year and I LOVE IT .. YET we didnt have sex but we everytime make out we take off our clothes and i love to sit on him so we talk and whatever and sometimes i touch his (little friend) u know! and then fall a sleep cos i told him i want to stay virgin till i marry yet i have been thinking if theres any way to have sex with out loosing my virginity?? i mean at least i want to have the (little friend) inside of me but HOW? so tell me what do u think??

**Mes T** · 03-18-2010 01:45 AM

Well if you put his penis inside your vagina, then you will lose your "virginity" no matter which way you go about it... !

Try oral. Or hand jobs. Should be fun.

**Fatin** · 03-18-2010 01:50 AM

hummmm ok wt if want to make his ... touch my vagina ONLY touching .. is that possible?? :S ..

**Mes T** · 03-18-2010 02:08 AM

Uhh like on the outside only? Yeah if you wanna do that then go for it...

But sweetheart, I get the feeling that you're on the younger side, and I worry that you might not have enough facts about sexual acts with people to be prepared... The truth is that it's easy to get caught up in the moment and go beyond just "touching" or whatever it may be. Let's say that he touched your vagina with his penis, just on the outside, but he already had some pre-cum or something and it touched you there... You could get pregnant just from that little bit, it's happened before.

If I were you, I'd find a birth control option as quickly as possible, maybe something as easy as just buying condoms. You wanna be prepared... I know you said you want to remain a virgin, but who knows, you could change your mind in the future. Just best to cover your bases, ya know?

Best of luck.

**Fatin** · 03-18-2010 02:13 AM

LOL yeah but i thought there might be a TRICK or something in that cos i serously couldnt stop thinking about how amazing it was LOL *sighs* :P but no! trust me i would rather stay virgin as long as possible

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**CHANDLERS WISH** · 03-18-2010 02:29 AM

Hello Fatin, so glad you still come here

Mes has given you some really good advice.

I'd definately agree with putting a condom on him, it would be fun anyway and you can never worry about pre-cum if you want to sit on him, not meaning his little thing inside of you

He may get carried away

**Fatin** · 03-18-2010 03:15 AM

LOL CW OMG i know i dnt know you well but i really miss u and miss this forum

.. hummm ok *sighs* i hopes everything goes well cos i will go back there next friday so i might go sleep at his place 1st and im sooo upset cos i cant open this forum there

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 03-18-2010 03:24 AM

haha, your addicted in a different way

Well mam, just you be careful young lady and I can imagine your excitement...

Your talking about hymen, that type of virginity, the moment that little thing enters you, you lose a little virginity but not the main one, but never even do that without a condom ok?

xx

Well we shall see you after Friday huh