Thread: New Girlfriend, sex too soon and too much ?

Jack, we don't Judge on this Forum, hense the removal of the post you replied to, nor do we attack a person's character after all, we do not know them..

I've been thinking a little more on this:-

I truly think communiciation as we drum into people here, is "the key"..

I remember, vividly, stating on my first date with my now boyfriend, a few things pertaining to sex, to first time sex verses intimacy, chemistry verses attachment etc and to my belief of I intend to be me 100% me sexually, no point being anyone else ( I was with my ex, and it nearly killed me).. I went out on 3 dates with my boyfriend and the third, onwards we were intimate. I'm guessing he likes my "intimacy", but bottom line is, from communication, he knew my past, and that was very sparce over 3 years and no one night stands and lots of celebacy.

I think that's your problem, it's not the instant wanting to be touched, and 7hr sex, it's the "is it because of the way she feels about me that she is "reacting" this way?

Communicate, not by asking her straight up, that's tricky, rather as my boyfriend said, "it just felt right".. there was laughter, conversation, easiness, holding and a couple of stolen kisses and the third date, it just felt right.....

So, start with something like that, " it just felt right, 4hrs communicating, we have so much in common, how did you feel that first night?"...

CW