Thread: GF masterbates when I'm sleeping

Consider getting the gf to climax before starting with oral sex. Proper use of your hand or hands can lead to many different positions and sensations that you won't be able to do with your tongue.

Start slow: sitting or lying practically on top of each other. This is a good time to explore each others body with your clothes still on. Time for hugging and cuddling. Time to check out each others curves before the action gets too hot. Time to tease each other by lightly brushing over erogenous areas or putting pressure on them without rubbing. It is a good time for small talk. Words can be great foreplay. Next, time to wash up and set the mood. Take care about personal hygiene. Choose the lighting, music and what is on TV (or not). Come back and cover up. Resume cuddling. Gradually get around to the objects of your desires. Make a game of discovery, even if it is the 10,000th time.

When you finally get your hand on her pubic area, make sure it is in a setting that is comfortable for her. Assure her with hugs kisses and nips to her erogenous zones including her lips, her nose, her cheeks, her eyebrows, her eyes, her lower ear lobes and the nape of her neck and nearby shoulders. Assure her with your voice and go very gradually if you get any tentativeness on her part. Don't continue forward if she has any true objections.

When she is comfortable with your hand on her pubic area, move it slowly, sometimes making a game of it, so you have the forefinger and the middle finger of one hand along side her upper labia so you can start to massage. You can massage the outer labia in a rhythmic manner of up and down interspersed with squeezing between the aforementioned two fingers. She should loosen up if she has been holding her leg muscles stiff. It may take some time, but when she does gradually move one finger, usually the forefinger between the outer lips and carefully and slowly rub the upper inner lips over the hood of the clitoris. You should be able to feel a knot in the flesh through the inner labia. This is the clitoris. It is very sensitive, so don't try to rub it directly without her first getting aroused and moist. You may be able bring her to the first orgasm by rubbing fast and slow and gently squeezing and releasing the area around the clitoris.

Meanwhile, don't forget about kissing, hugging, squeezing, brushing and other lovemaking to her especially around her face. Run your other hand up and down her back a few times, gently squeezing here and there. Pull her toward you slightly or just pretend to. Squeeze her buttocks. Cup your hand on them and massage them.

The key to getting a gf to orgasm by manual manipulation is to do it at a rhythm that she enjoys, but increase or decrease speed from time to time. Observe her closely. The first sign that she is getting aroused may be a furrowing of the brow, or it may be her repositioning her legs or it may be a tremor in her muscles, possibly her leg muscles. It could also be a change in her breathing. When you start to see signs that she is becoming aroused, take note of what you were doing at that time and increase the intensity or rhythm. If the result is more movement from her, maintain the new pace or
intensity. If not, continue with the first motion until you see the reaction again. Try to figure out if you did something slightly different when you got the reaction and if you did, repeat it, with increasing intensity if you continue to get a reaction. Again, don't forget the other lovemaking.

Continue doing this until she gets her first orgasm. Her leg muscles will clench in a pattern. She may do abdominal thrusts. Her breathing will become labored. She may thrust her jaw. She may want to rub her face against something. She may want to bite something. She may want to grab and squeeze something. She may verbalize sighs or even full or stifled screams. This will continue as you continue to rub or squeeze for a minute or two. You can intensify her orgasm by responding to some of her movements, such as provide your face for her to rub her face against, or kiss her jaw as she thrusts
it.

At that time reduce your rhythm back to the original slow rhythm or even below it. Do not stop. Gradually bring her to orgasm again. You will have some help now. If you put your finger down to her vaginal opening and rub it across that opening, you will find it amazingly hot and wet. Use that moisture when you go back to rubbing to decrease the friction and at the same time increase the rate of stroking. Go back and get more moisture whenever you feel the friction increasing.

The second orgasm should be faster to come and more intense than the first one. Never get bored as this will kill the mood. The second time could be a single orgasm, a double orgasm or the start of a continuous series of orgasms. In a series, alternate between fast and slow rhythms so as to have your gf come down from one climax and recharge to go back to the next. Never quit and never go very slow as continuous stimulation is needed. If it isn't a series, repeat the pattern until you get a series, if the gf is willing. If you do get a series, give your gf a break after 20 minutes or so by gradually slowing down then stopping the rhythm. She will most likely be tired, but blissful and want to sleep. If she is willing, repeat when she wakes up again.

If your gf gives you instruction on what feels good for her, accommodate. Weave it in the above, or replace as necessary. If you want to do oral, either start with it if you know what gets your gf going, or listen to her instructions or give her several orgasms manually, then switch to oral after learning how she is stimulated. Always observe what turns her on and repeat it.

Lick with your tongue, flick the tip of your tongue, stiffen your tongue, soften your tongue. Make your tongue wetter or drier. Alternate tongue on clitoris action with plunging your tongue inside near her urinary tract and/or deep inside. If your tongue gets tired, shift your head, or stiffen your tongue and bob your head up and down. Combine tongue and fingers. Use your lips, stiff or soft. Pull carefully on her labia with your lips. Very carefully use your teeth, not to bite, but to provide a hard surface. If you have facial hair, be very careful about using it, but in the right locations and situations it can help the stimulation. Use your nose carefully. Use your free hand or hands to massage erogenous zones. For yourself, get exquisite views of where you are
exciting as well as up toward her face and down her legs. Don't forget what she smells like when she is aroused. Consider you on top, her on top, 69, sideways as well as her standing and every other position possible. If your neck gets tired, such as with 69 or her on top, use a pillow to support your head.