Thread: How do you get your guy in the mood?

Originally Posted by BeMyBait

This may sound silly, lol, but I just want to make sure I'm taking advantage of the correct timing.

When you say "morning" do you mean like the actual morning, or just when first waking up?

Sometimes we have odd sleeping schedules and our mornings are actually at night or all kinds of craziness.

Thanks for the advice though! When his insurance kicks in I'll suggest that he gets his testosterone checked out.

That's a good question and I'm not sure I know the right answer. For people on "normal" schedules (sleep at night, awake during daylight), it means after a full night's sleep. Biorythms can get seriously out of whack when you work nights and that can include your sex life. My guess would be that once the body adjusts to the schedule, that "morning" becomes when you first awake. I have worked 2nd and 3rd shifts and remember that there wasn't much sex other than on the weekends when I went back on a "normal" schedule. You might have to experiment here a bit to find out the best time for him. Assuming that you can discuss this openly with him, ask him when he feels the horniest. That is a good indication of high testosterone levels. Good luck!

Originally Posted by BeMyBait

Or Men, what puts you in the mood?

My SO has been having some mental blockage problems during sex. He seems to get distracted easily and loses his erection. I posted about it previously in the Dating section. I think the anxiety he has been feeling over losing his erections is turning him off to sex in general. He's still attentive and cuddly, but I think if he could just focus it would begin to work itself out.

I just need to get him back in the mood! So what are your tips to get his mind back in the gutter lol

Also I've read about sexual alternatives and was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on other intimate acts aside from intercourse. (Oral and Mutual Masturbation are already ideas in mind)

Thanks!

Wht i think you should do is try kissing him softly at first and then try masterbating in front of him,put somthing sexy and then give him oral sex first and then see what happens.