Thread: new to sex - need help - How to seduce him

Hi all,
I am 23 yrs old and having BF.Recently we had sex on last weekend.
we tried only 2 or 3 positions missionary and doggy style.
My BF wants me to take an initiative.
Can anybody pls tell me which all are the sensitive body parts of male.
How can i seduce him. should i drive?


Regards,
Anamika

I hate it when men are no help what so ever with sex.
Personly Teasing works very well. Give him a hand job or oral, wait untill he is just about to cum then stop, do this just a couple of times before having sex and his orgasm when he does cum will last longer. It will also increase his sexual urgency toward you.
Don't tease to long tho, you don't want him to lose interest

Only he can tell you what his senstive parts are. Its really not fair of him to expect you to figure it out on your own without his feedback. Guys are as different as we are in what turns them on and what they want to see and feel and hear etc during sex.

What might work on so and so's boyfriend might turn your guy off and vice versa. Be open to touching him all over and stopping to ask him if it feels good, if it tickles, if its too fast, too slow... etc.

Positions are not as important as enthusiasm and attention to detail when it comes to pleasing your partner, and pleasing yourself.

Try to feel free to be sexual with him in non overt ways. Go sit on his lap and wiggle around while you talk about your day. Give him a spank when he gets up to get a glass of water. Tell him what turns you on that he does, tell him what you would love to try with him and see what he's open to.

Flirt flirt flirt. It doesn't always have to lead to sex but it sets a tone that makes it easier to fall into sex later, and makes it more exciting. Send him a naughty text or email while he's at work or take a sexy picture for him.

You can rub his leg under the table at a restaurant... more depending on how private the setting or how brave you are feeling.

As long as you are enthusiastic about being intimate with him, you'll get more comfortable finding ways to express that.

Thanks a lot.

Regards,
Anamika

All his parts are sensitive if he feels you desire them.

Originally Posted by Alaric

All his parts are sensitive if he feels you desire them.

BEST frigging response all day. This is the absolute trith

I actually spent about a week just trying out different ways to drive my boyfriend nuts. Maybe if you are wearing a skirt just walk up to him after leaving the restroom or something (if in public very discreetly) and put your underwear in his pocket. I thought it was very effective when we were at the aquarium because it was hours before he was able to make use of the fact that I had 'easy access'. Or while at the theater while it is dark just play with him a little, but not actually get him off. I also know that my boyfriend really loves my butt, so I bend over a lot or just push it into him often.
If I just want an easy tease I also do a little bit of ear nipping/sucking while cuddling. Or grabbing his hip as he walks by.
It all depends on what you are comfortable with and what you think your boyfriend would like. Don't get too stressed about it or you won't enjoy it, it should tease you as well as him.

All that seduction is great. Keep it going.
But, for most men, all you have to do is say you are ready, and he'll have his clothes on the floor faster than you can unhook that sexy bra you are wearing.
Have fun!

Originally Posted by StillLearnin

All that seduction is great. Keep it going.
But, for most men, all you have to do is say you are ready, and he'll have his clothes on the floor faster than you can unhook that sexy bra you are wearing.
Have fun!

Bleah. I don't buy that. Some men require as much or more teasing and foreplay than women do to get in the mood for sex.

Sometimes my guy is ready to go before I even get all the way inside the door and sometimes it takes some strategic teasing to get the party in his pants started. I love it both ways so its all good to me.

I'm not saying I don't buy that to be argumentitive... its just if you read these boards and the sheer number of women that have their trouble getting their s.o's excited... I don't think all it takes is saying 'i'm ready' for the average guy. Unless we are talking the average single guy, or average guy in a relationship where he wants more sex than he's getting... then I can see him being quick to jump into the bed not knowing when the iron will strike hot again.

But for the typical guy that has a gf/wife with a healthy sex appetite for sex that he can get at a moments notice... sometimes it takes a LOT more than just saying come and get it .

You are probably right. I wish I have had that problem of being in a relationship where I have to be coaxed into having sex sometimes because we have it so much all the time I'm actually getting bored with it. It would be a nice problem to have.