Thread: My husband wants sex every couple of days!

I can see what you are saying.... in a way. However I think you are lucky, I wish my husband wanted sex twice a day, let alone ever yother day.

But we are all different, and I don't think any couple can be perfectly matched up....

Originally Posted by housewife

Hi Dear
I just joined this site today.
yes you are wrong, sex is a very important thing in a relationship, you are so lucky to have sex every 2 days after 10 years of marriage.

one advice to you don't say no to your husband, otherwise he will look elsewhere.
the pain will go away by taking your medication, I hope that happens soon.
men need attention, the more attention and love you give the more you get.

take my advice and keep us updated.

I am amazed at these old fashioned views people have, o.k it wouldn't be good in a relationship to say no alot, but if she has children and is tired then why should she have to do it if she doesn't want to.

Also to the other person who responded about getting "goodies" sex shouldn't be used as some sort of treat if someone helps out in the house!!

Originally Posted by Naima

One thing I might add to what my lovely SG ladies (holla) have added here, is that foreplay = moisture in the vagina. Less moisture = more pain.

Do you normally climb on top of her and just start plowing away? Think twice about that if so, next time.

When you instigate sex, double or even triple your normal foreplay time with her. It might increase her moisture, further reducing any, if not all, her vaginal pain.

It's called making love for a reason.
It's not a race to **** the fastest and hardest, to cum right away.
It's the physical, tangible act of your love for one another.
Make love to her body.
Show every inch of her body just how much you love her.

YOU ARE SO RIGHT! All men should read your last few sentences and learn something! If every man waited another 10 minutes before they start going for it, women would very rarely have any pain. GOOD ADVICE!

My Wife and I have been married for over twenty years and other than during her Period we schedule marital relations every second day and we have been doing this for some time now. Let me assure you it works for us AND we like it. I am 54 years old and my Wife is 49. We make love in the morning when we are rested and we get up a bit early looking forward to it and we take our time with foreplay and really enjoy one another fully. The night before I shower and shave, lay out appropriate and comfortable lingerie for her to wear to bed - We have built up a selection for the purpose that is pretty, respectful comfortable and relatively modest but it provides for physical access. I like adding to it. We thus average 13 sessions per month and let me assure you that this is far superior to what it was when we were first married and without children. Scheduling sex works and it takes ALL the pressure off of both of us. We know we will have sex the following morning - it is a given so there is no issue for either of us and we both can look forward to it. Sex is very important and it is the first thing on our schedule and our day never the last thing.

It is called foreplay. I spend a long time massaging my Wife's back, her legs, neck - I love to touch her slowly and comfortably EVERYWHERE. When she is ready I then give her oral sex and I do not stop until she has orgasmed or tells me that she has had enough and is ready for me. THEN and ONLY then do I place myself into her and I do so slowly and with respect. I NEVER hurt her and I make sure she has a pillow under her and is comfortable.