Does it count?

**Anon_1990** · 04-05-2010 06:35 AM

When I was with my girl, I gave her full oral, but I didnt get a full blow job back, however during foreplay she did kiss, lick and very gently suck me for a few seconds to get the ball rolling. Would this count as oral?

**WildChild** · 04-05-2010 06:37 AM

If it involves your mouth or tongue, that's oral. However, when referring to "oral" in sexual terms it generally is taken to mean more than that.

**Anon_1990** · 04-05-2010 06:43 AM

Im sure it counts, ok she didnt make me cum doing it, but she sucked it a little, kissed it and teased it with her tongue. Just wondering how far in would count

**WildChild** · 04-05-2010 06:52 AM

This begs the question; count for what?

**Anon_1990** · 04-05-2010 06:59 AM

Count as "oral sex" or even "blow job"

**Anon_1990** · 04-05-2010 08:42 AM

Any ideas?

**Beautiful Disaster** · 04-05-2010 08:54 AM

Is the question here, "Have I received oral sex before or would I be lying if I said I had?" ???

It's common for a girl to do that to her man prior to regular sex, but of course in that instance if the girl wants sex she's not going to "complete" the oral sex because then you're done and you'd most likely have to wait to have sex. I'd say she's just trying to really get you going.

If regular sex is not involved, then she may have an issue with the idea of you finishing in her mouth, or maybe she's a little insecure with exactly how to do it.

Sounds to me like you're personally not considering it oral sex because you haven't finished. But truth is, us gals don't finish LOTS of times when we receive oral, but we're still supposed to credit our guy with giving us "oral sex".

So my answer......yeah it counts.

**Anon_1990** · 04-05-2010 09:12 AM

She had a bad cough for a while so she didn't want to choke and bite it, then we started having regular sex, and because of my nerves, any failed attempts meant I would just finish her off, so i never got a full blow job, but what she did give me, the kissing sucking and licking felt incredible

**maverick** · 04-05-2010 09:54 AM

I'm wondering why you want to count? Are you carving notches in your belt? I don't mean to criticize you, but this does sound a bit disrespectful of you gf. WildChild got it right in that oral is mouth or tongue to genital contact. it sounds like what you consider oral is ejaculating in her mouth. Many women don't care for this, some tolerate it, and some love it. But whether or not your gf does this for you, you have already participated in oral sex. Yes it counts. If you are trying to encourage her, try a 69. Driving her crazy orally may put her more in the mood to reciprocate.