masturbating in front of your boyfriend

**blondie99** · 04-06-2010 03:42 AM

Hello everyone

I have never really masturbated before, well not very often , but i have done it alot lately sitting in front of the computer reading some of the posts.

I wanted to do it in front of my boyfriend , but wanted some advice first on any ideas.
I have only looked at the forum a few times and found myself jilling off so to speak
I carn't help it now every time i see some sexy stories i seem to want to bring myself to orgasm.

**stressed** · 04-06-2010 03:48 AM

How about you suggest you both masturbate in bed (it's so common for us that we do that more than sex, unfortunately). Then, once you've become familiar with it you can be the only one masturbating while he's watching you.

**Anon_1990** · 04-06-2010 04:00 AM

I loved watching my ex do this, its a real turn on, but after a while I wanna make her cum so take over. Well I did. it, I really gotta stop thinking of her!

**tictactalk** · 04-06-2010 04:57 AM

I agree, this is really a turn on. I think its a normal part in your sexual experience.

**blondie99** · 04-06-2010 05:24 AM

Originally Posted by stressed

How about you suggest you both masturbate in bed (it's so common for us that we do that more than sex, unfortunately). Then, once you've become familiar with it you can be the only one masturbating while he's watching you.

I have thought of that one, i might suggest that, the first time we do this though it will seem very strange and we will probably look stupid

Originally Posted by Anon_1990

I loved watching my ex do this, its a real turn on, but after a while I wanna make her cum so take over. Well I did. it, I really gotta stop thinking of her!

When i come to " jill " of in front of my boyfriend for the first time , i can only see it lasting a couple of seconds till we start having sex

Originally Posted by tictactalk

I agree, this is really a turn on. I think its a normal part in your sexual experience.

Once i have done it for the first time it should be fine the next time .
I'll just practice a bit in front of the mirror later and will probable have ago tonight.

Anyway the forum is great , now that i have found it , i have lots of questions on sex , that i have never really asked people about.
I'll put another question about something else i wanted to know about.....:

**p3375** · 04-06-2010 08:13 AM

good for you - give it a go!
Believe me, your b-friend will LOVE it!
P

**LanaBear** · 04-06-2010 08:32 AM

Originally Posted by blondie99

we will probably look stupid

Nope, not possible... Chances are it will be one of the hottest things he's seen.

**rcoreyus** · 04-06-2010 11:20 AM

I can assure you it won't look stupid. I don't think there is a (straight) man on earth who doesn't enjoy watching.

**Anon_1990** · 04-06-2010 11:37 AM

It's so good to watch! Trust me!

**ItsASecret** · 04-06-2010 11:42 AM

I personally feel really uncomfortable doing it but I know my guy really likes it so I am doing my best to just do it enough to get comfortable. I guess that is all you can do.