?? Oral Sex

**starjoy08** · 04-13-2010 04:29 PM

When having sex, my partner wants to come in my mouth. I don't know if I would like that. Any advice or comments?

**Mes T** · 04-13-2010 04:38 PM

I'd say just try it and see how it goes. You might like it, you might not. If you're worried about taste, eat a mint beforehand and that takes care of that!

**LanaBear** · 04-13-2010 05:03 PM

Flavored lube helps too or like Mes says, a mint as well.

Other than that, if you don't want to, you don't have to. It's really up to you, there are a lot of threads on this.

**JennieBottle** · 04-13-2010 10:52 PM

The bottom line is if you don't want to you do not have to.

Personally I enjoy it, but not all the time. And the ladies who answered previously are correct, if you are interested in it eat a mint beforehand. If you are concerned about whether or not it is healthy than you can read this:

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There's a lot of other information there as well.

**rcoreyus** · 04-14-2010 09:58 AM

Seems worth trying. Also, try to get a sense of how important it is to him. If he just sort of likes it and you don't, then not need to bother. If it really turns him on (which it does for some men), then it is worth putting some effort into it. Also some men care if you swallow, some don't.

All this assumes (my usual disclaimer) that he is willing to put effort into doing things you like in bed. I think that if each partner does their best to please the other, both will be happy.

**maverick** · 04-14-2010 11:47 AM

I don't think you should do this if you do not want to, but I also don't think you should avoid it because you "don't know" if you would like it either. We would never try new things if we used this logic and being adventurous in bed is a great asset for either party. I'll give you a couple of suggestions. Try a 69... him giving you oral and you giving him oral at the same time. The stimulation can take your mind off of what you are doing. Tell him to let you know when he is coming. You can then make one of several choices. Position his penis near the back of your mouth so that you do not taste it so much (swallow). Position him near the front of your mouth so that you can spit it out. Remove your mouth and finish him with your hand. Try it, you might like it.

**Anon_1990** · 04-14-2010 04:15 PM

Take it from a man, oral feels great!

**caterpillar79** · 04-14-2010 05:12 PM

I was told that it gives some men an intense orgasm. Try it and see if you like doing it. If you don't know how to do it yet, he'll help you get familiar with it and maybe master it later on. It takes practice and sensitivity to how his penis throbs - you'll actually know when it is time for him to cum. Then decide whether you swallow or not. All that is to it is how comfortable you are in whatever choice you make. Never ever force yourself to do something that you do not want to do - you will just resent it in the long run.

**skirt99** · 04-14-2010 09:21 PM

Hi Star. As you can see, many of us do what you are thinking about. It's a great way to satisfy your man particularly if he's not expecting you to do it. One thing to consider is how much your guy cums. If you have given him a bj or hj then you know something about that. My current partner only cums a little but I have done men who produce enough to make you gag.