Thread: Is this a orgasm?

That happens to me too. Where I feel like my whole body is heating up and about to explode and then all of a sudden I'm too sensitive to touch. I never feel pain, but it gets uncomfortable really fast and as you said, it doesn't seem like what people say it is.

My current bf has made me orgasm a couple times through oral and fingering, but I've never done it during intercourse or through masturbation. So idk there may be something wrong with me. =/

I hope you figure it out too!

truthfully, it doesnt sound like you had one to me. an orgasm, from my experience is not an experience that most people are uncertain of expereincing. if that makes sense. it sounds like you came close, and that you were on the threshold, which an feel pretty great. when you start to feel really sensitive, just pull back a little. use less pressure, maybe even avoid the clit all together.

I agree with sungem - I don't think you have either. As you mentioned has been said 'you'd know if you have' and if yr still asking, then I think the answer is 'no'.

I think the sensations you've had are a lead up and I also sometimes get super sensitive and actually when I get to that stage I find it hard to continue to orgasm.

There is NO mistaking an orgasm, everything around you fades into insignificance as an unbelievable pleasure overtakes your body. The saying 'dying of pleasure' is appropriate. You can feel it approaching and the only thing you want is for it to just go on and on.

Maybe cut back on the intensity of the vibrator, it can over-stimulate which is what I think is happening to you. The nerves get overwhelmed but get beyond the point where the actual orgasm response can occur.

Hope you get there soon!