a little bit of advanced advice

**Teapot** · 05-01-2010 04:21 PM

i am very sexually active and have been for a long time. i am moderatly good in bed but am constantly looking for new things to do.
unfortunatly i have a hip which likes to dislocate its self when its out in weird positions so any karma sutra or things of the kind generally get written off with me.
i was wondering if anyone had any tips which are fairly advanced but dont mean you have to be able to swing your leg over your head as i cant find very many.
thankyou

**WildChild** · 05-01-2010 04:40 PM

Have considered getting a swing? That might allow some new posistions without messing up your hip.

**ItsASecret** · 05-01-2010 05:43 PM

The only thing you can do is try. I have a problem with my hip as well in addition to not being a flexi girl so I know what you mean with not being able to find positions. You can search online or in books but a lot of it will be based on the assumption that people work out enough to be able to end up in positions that seems only gumbi would be capable of. Try to work the positions by getting started and going as far as you can until the burning pain starts to kick in, that will be your que to stop.

**Hopeless Dork** · 05-01-2010 07:18 PM

Spicing up your sex life doesn't have to involve large muscle groups and flexibility! There are so many things you can do to enhance you and your partners pleasure that are painless.

Sex is mostly mental... so you might try getting into that side of things to add some heat: Reading each other erotic stories, talking dirty during sex, role-playing.

Sex is very visual... flip those lights on high while giving him oral sex, try some sexy costumes, lingerie, do a little dance for him. You can be the WORST dancer on the planet...and I'm sure he'll love it. Get yourself in a comfy position seated away from him where he has a good view and masturbate for him... watch him do it.. etc.. those types of things can heighten both of your arousal where it won't matter what position you're in when you finally do it!

Sex is fun: Add some gadgets, some flavored lubes, tiny vibes, handcuffs, feathers, soft-spanking instruments (or hard ones!)

Sex is intimate: Light some scented candles, give each other bed baths or lengthy full body massages, snuggle, passionately kiss and fondle each other.

For positional comfort:

Doggystyle: Prop yourself on pillows to support your weight, he'll get the same view and access without you having to put strain on your hip joints to hold yourself up.

Missionary: you don't have to put your legs up to give him and you different sensations, use your kegal muscles and alternate arching your back and keeping it flat (tilts your pelvic region quite awesomely)

SidebySide: Let him spoon behind you while you cross your top leg over his body, not much strain on your hips and gives him more than adequate access to your bits.

Riding: straddle him on a chair where you can firmly plant your feet down and not have to have your hips bent in any uncomfortable way.

You can have as much fun and pleasure as you want to without all the flying pony double splits cartwheel kama sutra hooplah and so can he