embarrasing theard..guys input

**cubanlink** · 05-02-2010 02:21 AM

what would you do.....

5 months relationship.. we have been having trouble off n on because sometimes i dont feel her..she does get wet.. super wet.. i change positions n it keeps happening..so i get soft during . im not big but not small. 6-6.5 sooo i put crazy ideas in my head that the person b4 must of stretch it out!....sooo i go lookin for the past.. n i found pictures she had saved on her email of her ex which was black. n to feel embarrased yeah im aloot smaller. quite alot. she thought she had erased those pics which are 2 yrs old....but i got a hold of them. cant even c her face now.

**ItsASecret** · 05-02-2010 02:54 AM

revisit your old threads that covered the same issues, the same problems. all the answers are in there.

**cubanlink** · 05-02-2010 02:58 AM

honestly believe the opinions there were sugarcoated. need a real advise. not science!

**ItsASecret** · 05-02-2010 03:12 AM

honestly believe the opinions there were sugarcoated. need a real advise. not science!

Science like that does not have to be sugarcoated. You cannot sugar coat "your an average length man nothing is wrong with you". There is nothing to even surgarcoat, you know the answers you just need to be able to believe them an accept that nothing is wrong. It is hard of course, but you know in your heart the answers already.

**jns** · 05-02-2010 04:26 AM

Since you don't like sugarcoated, let me ask you this: were you upset because your gf's former boyfriend was black, or was it that he was larger than you? Why did you go searching her private communications if you could not handle what you found? If you cannot get past those things, you are going to have to get a different gf. Your current gf deserves that, she cannot undo the past.

**cuff** · 05-02-2010 06:25 AM

Maybe you're lacking in girth. 6-6.5 in length isn't going to do much as far as friction goes. If she's super wet, it's probably going to make matters worse when it comes to feeling friction.

As far as her being stretched out by a previous guy. I had an ex who had a relationship with a guy for 10 years that was 6'7" and was big. She's probably the tightest woman I've been with. So the answer to it stretching out is more than likely, no. Unless she had been using monster dildos or fisting or something for long periods, I don't see her getting stretched out permanently

**Hopeless Dork** · 05-02-2010 07:48 AM

Women don't get "stretched out" ughhhh at the lockerroom sex ed. Women have babies... and I've never seen a penis or heard of one as big as a newborn baby. And guess what? Their vaginas go back to normal.

You are obsessed, yes, obsessed with her past. I agree with the poster that said you might need to let her go if you can't move on from that and keep trying to blame her. She deserves to be with a man that will not hold her past against her.

For you, I'd suggest counseling as it seems you have some deep-rooted issues that need to be resolved in order for you to be in a healthy sexual relationship.

Your penis fits the national average in size, her vagina is not broken due to having an exboyfriend with a big penis.

It sounds like the wetness more than anything is causing issues for friction. Wear textured, ribbed condoms and keep a towel by the bed to dab yourself off a bit when going in and out of her to reduce some of the excess wetness.

**cuff** · 05-02-2010 09:01 AM

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

Women don't get "stretched out" ughhhh at the lockerroom sex ed. Women have babies... and I've never seen a penis or heard of one as big as a newborn baby. And guess what? Their vaginas go back to normal.

Not true. The vagina can become looser after having children. I don't have firsthand knowledge, but, I've heard stories of this from various people. It may not happen to all women, but it does happen to some. After searching online, I see that it happens.

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

Your penis fits the national average in size, her vagina is not broken due to having an exboyfriend with a big penis.

His penis fits the average for length, but no mention of girth. If there is a problem, and it's at his end, girth is where it would be. Womens vaginas can be tighter or looser, just as penis size can be smaller or larger. It is possible there's a problem somewhere there. Being super wet would complicate things.

**grrrr** · 05-02-2010 09:33 AM

Originally Posted by ItsASecret

revisit your old threads that covered the same issues, the same problems. all the answers are in there.

Kind of loving that there are other histronic posts about this same thing by the same poster...

First of all, you're NOT small, which is what you want to hear. Second of all, get over yourself! If you'd stop over thinking everything and just enjoy yourself and stop thinking that she's "too loose" for you, you might actually have fun.

Less thinking. More thrusting.